OK while I agree with a lot of what's being said I don't think I'm seeing the one thing being said that needs to be said. You need to talk to your wife about this. If your sister-in-law ever decides to tell your wife what happened and your wife finds out you hid it from her you might as well call her your ex wife.
It also bothers me that every time you say something complimentary about your wife's sister you have to include in parenthesis (so is my wife). It's almost like you're trying to remind yourself that you're married and that your wife deserves your total attention. You need to stay the hell away from your wife's sister. Because it sounds like her sister-in-law at the very least has a crush on you and that's never gonna end well. The fact that you got sexually aroused just from hugging her is a huge red flag and I'm really wondering whether your wife would even want to stay married to you. I guess it's time for you to sit yourself down and give this some serious thought because it seems to me you have kind of a crush on your sister-in-law too. Is it really worth trashing your marriage over?
If you love your girlfriend and value your relationship, you need to cut this other girl off. Your “friend” is a predator. She knows your girlfriend is away. Her behavior is intentional and it's gross. It's up to you to do a firm redirection in this.
I’m in a weird position where I do like him, he has been around but idk maybe I am just using him for company. I came out of a 1.5 relationship a few months ago and it was hard to adjust to being alone. When me and him started hanging out I felt a lot better, so im stuck between thinking if its just company that I want or if I actually do like him.
He needs to learn how to handle his emotions in a healthy way.
A friend of mine's husband was like this (not to that extent), and he would take a walk when he got home. Didn't go into the house in that mood. Just park the car and go for a walk. In his case he may need to go to the gym to burn off the energy.
You have repeatedly mentioned that he is famous, but haven’t really said anything about why you want to know him aside from him being single and cute. If you want to try DMs sure, but I admit it sounds like you’re just interested because of who he is professionally.
Yes. I find myself suggesting continually that ops go thru all the posts in this sub and reading posts and the comments from younger women being abused by their much older boyfriend. Especially the response from older women who have been there.
You’re both young and these family events can suck, just make sure you and your gf are on the same page going in and that you’ll do your best to stay together. And if your gf gets pulled by a random aunt or cousin, just hold her arm real tight.
why do yall just sit there and allow stuff like this to happen?
OK while I agree with a lot of what's being said I don't think I'm seeing the one thing being said that needs to be said. You need to talk to your wife about this. If your sister-in-law ever decides to tell your wife what happened and your wife finds out you hid it from her you might as well call her your ex wife.
It also bothers me that every time you say something complimentary about your wife's sister you have to include in parenthesis (so is my wife). It's almost like you're trying to remind yourself that you're married and that your wife deserves your total attention. You need to stay the hell away from your wife's sister. Because it sounds like her sister-in-law at the very least has a crush on you and that's never gonna end well. The fact that you got sexually aroused just from hugging her is a huge red flag and I'm really wondering whether your wife would even want to stay married to you. I guess it's time for you to sit yourself down and give this some serious thought because it seems to me you have kind of a crush on your sister-in-law too. Is it really worth trashing your marriage over?
I will just say he probably forgot to mention second besties name bc his post was 8 hours long?♀️
If you love your girlfriend and value your relationship, you need to cut this other girl off. Your “friend” is a predator. She knows your girlfriend is away. Her behavior is intentional and it's gross. It's up to you to do a firm redirection in this.
I’m in a weird position where I do like him, he has been around but idk maybe I am just using him for company. I came out of a 1.5 relationship a few months ago and it was hard to adjust to being alone. When me and him started hanging out I felt a lot better, so im stuck between thinking if its just company that I want or if I actually do like him.
It was over the span of September through november, so about 1 1/2 months
He needs to learn how to handle his emotions in a healthy way.
A friend of mine's husband was like this (not to that extent), and he would take a walk when he got home. Didn't go into the house in that mood. Just park the car and go for a walk. In his case he may need to go to the gym to burn off the energy.
You have repeatedly mentioned that he is famous, but haven’t really said anything about why you want to know him aside from him being single and cute. If you want to try DMs sure, but I admit it sounds like you’re just interested because of who he is professionally.
Yes. I find myself suggesting continually that ops go thru all the posts in this sub and reading posts and the comments from younger women being abused by their much older boyfriend. Especially the response from older women who have been there.
And I feel sad every time…
You’re both young and these family events can suck, just make sure you and your gf are on the same page going in and that you’ll do your best to stay together. And if your gf gets pulled by a random aunt or cousin, just hold her arm real tight.
This is a good comment.. there's such a difference between having and raising your own babies (especially for a woman) and taking in a 10 year old.
£2200 in total.