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Get a lawyer, don't tell her. Let her say what she wants and watch what you say.
Your a father you are not torn between anything. It's your son and love. Or son without love. Your ex is going to always make issues until she finds someone else. Guaranteed.
So she can dish the treatment but can’t take it,
So you probably need therapy, but good luck broaching that subject with her response to you bringing things up.
If you want to go down the petty path, you can try mirroring her behaviour and attitude.
You need to make sure you do it exactly, so if possible record your normal reaction/response, then record hers. Then the next time you mirror her. And when she complains etc, you bring out the recording of her, and say “why do you have a problem with it? All I did was mirror you, if it’s okay for you it must be okay for me.”
Then if you really want to hammer home the point, you tell her that you would much prefer to handle things better, like how you normally handle it and show her the recording of you.
Exactly this. Your husband is fucking weird
I think if you’re being honest here, you’ve always been in a situation where you committed to a relationship where you had certain assumptions (for arguments sake, let’s say one that’s monogamous to start), and when both explicit or logically implicit boundaries were crossed, you allowed yourself to excuse inappropriate behavior with whatever explanation or suggestion you were told, or what you wanted to believe.
In saying that, at the start, did you think you were monogamous? Then he slept with someone, and you found out; did he tell you it wasn’t a big deal and that he needs to be open?
You then agree to it. You don’t want to, but you don’t want to lose him. The entire time, you never see anyone else. He does consistently.
Over four years, he crosses your boundaries constantly. At this point, I don’t really need to reference the specifics you provided. They unfortunately don’t matter at this point.
The reason for that, is your boundaries have proven to be meaningless. By definition, a boundary is something you set that if crossed is a deal breaker. Crossing the boundary has consequences.
What’s happened here is that you’ve told him a boundary, he’s crossed it, and you’ve adjusted your boundary to accommodate him. You’ve convinced yourself that you’re wrong. You then set new boundaries. He crosses them. You again adjust them.
So what’s the answer? You leave. You show him there’s actually a consequence to disrespecting your boundaries. He’s otherwise never going to stop, because he’s learned that you’re never going to do anything about it. Good luck.