many folks aggressively mentioned that it appears I have a parasocial relationship with them
They’re right. You should really listen to them and go see a therapist if you’re still having trouble grasping the difference between this person’s public image and their willingness to get deeply involved on any level with a stranger who’s already decided based on that image that “we have so much in common!” Or if you can’t sort out why it seems harder to work on finding friends in real life than fixating on this person as the solution to your loneliness.
I’m married to a bisexual woman that is not out in any real way. You like who you like don’t have to label yourself. Being with the same sex partner is fine live your life and find what happiness you can.
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Thank you for your extensive reply! And yes, that is indeed what i first had in mind with dinner, with his partner and new role seemed pretty normal but soon after it took a weird turn.
I'll decline the invite and schedule something in the office.
I'll make a backup of all the texts. Good thing to do before I forget that.
We have an HR department so I'll keep that in mind if it doesn't stop.
I have a particular ex who never got fully committed to me that I eventually moved on from. He always claimed the problem was him. If I heard he got married I would probably be hurt and upset. Even though I am super in love with my boyfriend of 2 years. Even though I no longer want to be with him (he actually disgusts me), it would still feel like a confirmation of all of the insecurities I felt during that time. That his inability to fully commit to me was due to my flaws. Ego isn't logical.
Yeah I agree, their relationship sounds like a mess. Him trying to get her to sleep with guys, him trying to sleep with other women. Just a mess all around.
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many folks aggressively mentioned that it appears I have a parasocial relationship with them
They’re right. You should really listen to them and go see a therapist if you’re still having trouble grasping the difference between this person’s public image and their willingness to get deeply involved on any level with a stranger who’s already decided based on that image that “we have so much in common!” Or if you can’t sort out why it seems harder to work on finding friends in real life than fixating on this person as the solution to your loneliness.
I’m married to a bisexual woman that is not out in any real way. You like who you like don’t have to label yourself. Being with the same sex partner is fine live your life and find what happiness you can.
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need to make a complaint at HR, they are evidence. Even if y
Thank you for your extensive reply! And yes, that is indeed what i first had in mind with dinner, with his partner and new role seemed pretty normal but soon after it took a weird turn.
I'll decline the invite and schedule something in the office.
I'll make a backup of all the texts. Good thing to do before I forget that.
We have an HR department so I'll keep that in mind if it doesn't stop.
Thank you for confirming my thought!
I have a particular ex who never got fully committed to me that I eventually moved on from. He always claimed the problem was him. If I heard he got married I would probably be hurt and upset. Even though I am super in love with my boyfriend of 2 years. Even though I no longer want to be with him (he actually disgusts me), it would still feel like a confirmation of all of the insecurities I felt during that time. That his inability to fully commit to me was due to my flaws. Ego isn't logical.
Yeah I agree, their relationship sounds like a mess. Him trying to get her to sleep with guys, him trying to sleep with other women. Just a mess all around.