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Sorry, if you're an attorney you definitely know more about this than I do, I didn't mean to give legal advice! I just don't think you can convince your ex to see things the same way as you do, even though I think you're clearly being rational about this situation (and he's, at the very least, moving way too fast!)
Is there no legal grounds for renegotiating a custody agreement when your ex is moving a literal stranger into the house they share with your child? I'm genuinely asking. I distinctly remember not being able to see my dad for about a month during my parents' divorce because of a similar living situation issue, but I was honestly too young to know how or why it was happening.
For what it's worth, as a child of divorce, it sounds like you're cultivating a really healthy, supportive co-parenting relationship on your end, and that will become apparent and pay off in making your son a more well-rounded adult. My mom was the same way, even though my dad was petty and immature and it took me a long time to realize.
Regardless, wishing you luck
this means they were never right person to begin with. it took me so long to find my current partner and i wasn't even actively looking for a relationship, but he gives me the world and loves me more than i could've ever imagined. i was also in a domestic violent relationship prior to meeting my current partner. he will come to you x
Stop contact with him. He can't threaten anything if he has no way to contact you.
If your marriage is based on nothing more than fun and sex, yes, kids will kill that (for a while at least). The past two years have been hell for parents (and if you think having toddlers is bad just be happy you weren't dealing with suicidal teens like so many others). The pandemic response destroyed many families and ruined many relationships. So if you're lamenting that the honeymoon phase is over and now it's the mutual commitment that'll keep you going, that's fair. Every relationship reaches that milestone. It's also pretty “normal” for the first four years of a kid's life to be pretty stress-inducing. No responsible person is going to be “lighthearted” when they're dealing with a newborn in the midst of a global crisis. Sounds like maybe neither of you really understood what parenthood was like + you had a major spanner thrown into the works that no one could have expected. While you won't have those giddy, no obligations kinds of times you used to have you will get to where your kids are old enough to occupy themselves so you two can have a moment to laugh together. Having a babysitter you can call once in a while is essential too. Your relationship will be as good as the amount of work you're both willing to put into it. Just don't blame your kids, they didn't ask to be born.
They can be both. Mixed race exists.
Sounds like you had a child with the man of the year and we're only on the 5th day of 2023. Congrats.
Obviously this is a huge fucking red flag, i'm almost certain it's not the only red flag if we were to dig more into your relationship with this turd. As others have already pointed out, get the fuck out of this situation, this man is dangerous.
So you think it should be 1/3rd each?
If he wants his 50% of the assets etc to go to his one child its the exact same as you wanting your 50% split with your two kids. if you separated would either of you get more than half? It makes sense sense to me especially if they didn't online with both of you and have a parent like relationship with you or your partner.
My partner and I each have 1 child from previous relationships(both adults now). We have an agreement on what the others child will inherit based on who predeceases who. If he predeceased me, it doesn't make sense that his child wouldn't get part of our house after I pass. His child deserves to inherit from his father's estate.
Also, that is how my mom has separated her assets in her will. %50 to me, which will be given in trust to my son. 50% to my brother in trust for his two kids.
It can be a very complicated discussion. It's good you are having it.
Sorry OP, you don't get to have it both ways. It sucks, but you have to choose… best friend or this relationship.
Usually I'd say shame on you and ride or die for bestie, but honestly she sounds toxic and manipulative. And regardless of girl code (and how dating exes is tacky) you are both in your mid-30s but she's acting 16. And he's pushing 40 so surely he finds this exhausting?
If you have a proper, mature relationship with your boyfriend and it's something you want to grow into, you two should go NC with her. You cannot have it both ways, and despite your long history with each other it might do you some good to have some distance and seriously evaluate your friendship. The way you describe her is… not great OP. She sounds like she has a raging personality disorder… you're either just like her and it's why you get along well, or you've been her punching bag for 25 years and some space would do you good. Emotionally volatile good time girls may seem fun when you're 22, but at 36 it's just sad.
Wish you the best.
Gradually*
Be honest, do it asap not to waste her time and don't expect it to be amicable.
Don't try and justify yourself (you will, eventually, that's how people's minds work, they hate to be in the wrong). But for the time being—be a man, accept anything coming your way from a woman who trusts you and who's about to be betrayed. You can on-line with that.
Just part your ways asap. She will need time to recover and find a better partner.
Why do you keep saying “we”?
What can I say? It’s the hope that we can go back to how things were, hope that we’ll get through this together, hope that he’ll change.
Has he admitted his conflict style is immature, mean, and won’t work with anyone long term?
To be fair, he sort of has, at least towards the end. Although I’m not sure if he actually felt it or was saying it in an attempt to stop me leaving.
grey rock for the win!
On both ends would you say?