Yeah I agree, if I end up “giving in” too many times. I feel shit, and I end up hating my partner. Funny thing is I’ve only ever felt like I have to “give in” when the sex in the first place is very one sided (aka it’s not for my pleasure)
Sorry OP, but she is NOT a decent person. A ‘decent’ person would never do this to their partner. Not only did she violate your privacy and trust, her complete lack of remorse only further solidifies the full absence of her moral character. Be smart OP and do what you need to do to make sure those images and videos are deleted. And get as far away from this awful person as you can. What she did is beyond disgusting and hurtful.
I didn't need to read this to figure out that the right thing for you to do is to tell her.
Idk what this almost 30 year old is doing but I'd stop if I were you
Yeah I agree, if I end up “giving in” too many times. I feel shit, and I end up hating my partner. Funny thing is I’ve only ever felt like I have to “give in” when the sex in the first place is very one sided (aka it’s not for my pleasure)
Sorry OP, but she is NOT a decent person. A ‘decent’ person would never do this to their partner. Not only did she violate your privacy and trust, her complete lack of remorse only further solidifies the full absence of her moral character. Be smart OP and do what you need to do to make sure those images and videos are deleted. And get as far away from this awful person as you can. What she did is beyond disgusting and hurtful.
I believe it is best to call the friend and ask if this was an oversight or intentional.
After you know you can decide what to do.
It may be a limitation that anyone not officially married does not get a plus one due to finances.
Either way I believe calling to find out for sure is the best way to start.