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I feel like she feels guilty about being happy, and even about seeing you happy, since it was built on a lie. I doubt it's about second thoughts.
It sounds like you're inclined to forgive her (which is totally fine and understandable), but maybe couple's therapy would be helpful to make sure you guys work it out calmly, and help to shore up any trust issues this has caused.
In the end, you're happy with how things are. In the grand scheme of “betrayals” this (while significant, don't get me wrong) is at least… I don't know, positive? Like, done out of a desire to hold onto something good. That's not an excuse, but it's a different spot, emotionally, from cheating or something like that.
First, there are different kinds of therapy, where sometimes focusing on specific issues and goals with a therapist can be a lot more productive than taking a deeper and longer term approach.
But a better option may be to check out couples retreats, and to find one that might help bring the two of you together.
Or traveling together can be either very good for a relationship – or it can expose your incompatibilities, so you can stop wasting your time and move on.
Seriously though traveling can be very positive, as relying on each other in situations that may be stressful can really bring people together. Camping is a great option – as is traveling in a foreign country, where things aren't familiar, and you'll need to work together to find some wonderfully special moments, that will make the whole thing worthwhile.
And it makes your hair super soft as a bonus! My mama refused to use the chemical stuff they would send home—she was a bit too crunchy for that but the Mayo was really effective and didn’t sting as bad as alcohol based lice medicine.
you absolutely do not need to be self absorbed about some thing on somebody else’s day. This girl has nine months to be self absorbed about her pregnancy. She is on a trip to celebrate somebody else. No she does not get to be self absorbed.
He's probably pissed because he told his girlfriend and now he can't put that back in the bottle or someone caught him and told him they will tell ger if he doesn't.
I know you already asked about personal care, but we had a similar experience in my house.
Medicated/caffeinated shampoo. The one that is for extreme dandruff for people with skin conditions, or that other caffeinated wake up shower gel, they both smell the same.
It was like the cilantro taste effect. To me it smelt like liquorice to my wife it smelt like piss.
You sound exhausting and privileged. He should have been honest too but damn you are questioning the whole marriage off of a house down payment. Just leave. It's doomed to fail anyway.
You have two choices. One, just end it, she’s sucking all the happiness out of your life at a time you should be having fun.
The second thing is warn her that if she pulls the silent act again you will consider it a break and act accordingly. When she does it again, don’t bother trying to contact her. Find some female friends that you can go on platonic dates with and posts pictures on your social media. Change your status to single. My guess is the silent treatment will end quickly but not happily. Then break up for real.
I feel like she feels guilty about being happy, and even about seeing you happy, since it was built on a lie. I doubt it's about second thoughts.
It sounds like you're inclined to forgive her (which is totally fine and understandable), but maybe couple's therapy would be helpful to make sure you guys work it out calmly, and help to shore up any trust issues this has caused.
In the end, you're happy with how things are. In the grand scheme of “betrayals” this (while significant, don't get me wrong) is at least… I don't know, positive? Like, done out of a desire to hold onto something good. That's not an excuse, but it's a different spot, emotionally, from cheating or something like that.
Where in the Republic of Ireland are you from may I ask?
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First, there are different kinds of therapy, where sometimes focusing on specific issues and goals with a therapist can be a lot more productive than taking a deeper and longer term approach.
But a better option may be to check out couples retreats, and to find one that might help bring the two of you together.
Or traveling together can be either very good for a relationship – or it can expose your incompatibilities, so you can stop wasting your time and move on.
Seriously though traveling can be very positive, as relying on each other in situations that may be stressful can really bring people together. Camping is a great option – as is traveling in a foreign country, where things aren't familiar, and you'll need to work together to find some wonderfully special moments, that will make the whole thing worthwhile.
And it makes your hair super soft as a bonus! My mama refused to use the chemical stuff they would send home—she was a bit too crunchy for that but the Mayo was really effective and didn’t sting as bad as alcohol based lice medicine.
you absolutely do not need to be self absorbed about some thing on somebody else’s day. This girl has nine months to be self absorbed about her pregnancy. She is on a trip to celebrate somebody else. No she does not get to be self absorbed.
She should check his phone.
He's probably pissed because he told his girlfriend and now he can't put that back in the bottle or someone caught him and told him they will tell ger if he doesn't.
I know you already asked about personal care, but we had a similar experience in my house.
Medicated/caffeinated shampoo. The one that is for extreme dandruff for people with skin conditions, or that other caffeinated wake up shower gel, they both smell the same.
It was like the cilantro taste effect. To me it smelt like liquorice to my wife it smelt like piss.
Safe to say back to regular shampoo.
As in break up. This relationship has gotten toxic. These problems will escalate.
You sound exhausting and privileged. He should have been honest too but damn you are questioning the whole marriage off of a house down payment. Just leave. It's doomed to fail anyway.
You have two choices. One, just end it, she’s sucking all the happiness out of your life at a time you should be having fun.
The second thing is warn her that if she pulls the silent act again you will consider it a break and act accordingly. When she does it again, don’t bother trying to contact her. Find some female friends that you can go on platonic dates with and posts pictures on your social media. Change your status to single. My guess is the silent treatment will end quickly but not happily. Then break up for real.