Definitely. I had a trans man clear the air as soon as we matched on a dating app before we ever met in person. I was polite as I could be that this wasn’t the type of situation I wanted to pursue, and we went on our separate ways.
She's mad at you for being hurt because you love her more than she loves you? She is telling you in as many ways as she knows that you will never be her man. You are her safety net. Run.
If you're severely depressed for more than 2 weeks, you need to seek professional help. That is the definition of “clinical” depression.
Start with a therapist but also get on a waiting list to see a psychiatrist. The former does talk therapy; the latter, medication. Both approaches can treat depression, but the combination is the best approach and the most likely to prevent a long unremitting course.
This is a big red flag that your relationship does not have a future. A big, important part of serious, long-term relationships is recognition from family and community. That’s why we have weddings – to get the important people together to acknowledge and celebrate a relationship.
I think at six months it’s premature to think of a partner as family, but his refusal to introduce you to his parents suggests to me that he doesn’t think he will ever think of you as family. Are you OK with that?
Nope. You’re not a clown, she’s not a villain, the relationship just isn’t working out. It’s a very normal thing. Don’t wallow in feeling hard done by, just make a clean break with her and move on with your life.
Has he seemed paranoid before this?
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Definitely. I had a trans man clear the air as soon as we matched on a dating app before we ever met in person. I was polite as I could be that this wasn’t the type of situation I wanted to pursue, and we went on our separate ways.
She's mad at you for being hurt because you love her more than she loves you? She is telling you in as many ways as she knows that you will never be her man. You are her safety net. Run.
as everybody loves a good tan, right?
I do not on myself, but it's your body. Do what makes you feel comfy/pretty.
Also fuck that guy, gross.
“Implied” isn't nearly good enough to propose to someone.
Okay thanks, that makes sense as I haven't asked about it again in the last few years
If you're severely depressed for more than 2 weeks, you need to seek professional help. That is the definition of “clinical” depression.
Start with a therapist but also get on a waiting list to see a psychiatrist. The former does talk therapy; the latter, medication. Both approaches can treat depression, but the combination is the best approach and the most likely to prevent a long unremitting course.
She understands. She just doesn’t care
This is a big red flag that your relationship does not have a future. A big, important part of serious, long-term relationships is recognition from family and community. That’s why we have weddings – to get the important people together to acknowledge and celebrate a relationship.
I think at six months it’s premature to think of a partner as family, but his refusal to introduce you to his parents suggests to me that he doesn’t think he will ever think of you as family. Are you OK with that?
Dysthymia is a horeshit diagnoses and not working is just enabling her “depression” and making her more sick. I said my piece
Nope. You’re not a clown, she’s not a villain, the relationship just isn’t working out. It’s a very normal thing. Don’t wallow in feeling hard done by, just make a clean break with her and move on with your life.
Give him a Barbie doll and tell him to dress that up because you’re not a doll. Controlling how you look is a serious red flag….