Yeah then definitely try and get more info out of him It wouldn't be fair to promise you a family if he really changed his mind and just basically stall as long as possible while enjoying the benefits of a relationship / maybe marriage with you. I 100% get you, this would also throw me off and question things because this is now a make-or-break point for you two.
I hope he was honestly trying to comfort you and not just placate you because he knows he effed up. Has he tried to speak to you about it or initiated a talk since?
Why do people always insist that they know nothing is going on between their spouse and someone else when it usually turns out that there is in fact something going on between them?
Your husband knew damn well that giving sex toys to her was inappropriate. This is why he did not tell you. He is either currently fucking her or is trying to fuck her. Watch your back and pay attention.
During the argument, Dad told hubby that he wasn’t good enough for me
What did you say in response to this? Did you defend your husband after this shitty remark or did you secretly agree with your dad and are now reasonably responsible for allowing your dad to continually shit high upon your husband?
You did all of that in a week? You sound kind of ovsessed and stalkerish since yiu went as far as tracking down her new boyfriend to talk to her.
She didn't give you an ultimatum, she told you in no uncertain terms to leave her alone and you repeatedly bulldozed right over the top of her boundaries. There is absolutely nothing to mend. Stay away before you end up with a restraining order.
The former you didn’t threaten your husband. Some men are terrified of successful women, in particular when those women earn more and are on an upward career trajectory. Try marriage counseling to try to realign the marriage, but don’t sacrifice your career or better you, your husband must make some changes.
He obviously does not care about his credit and he doesn't care about yours. It sounds like he is banking on your good credit to get him what he wants.
DO NOT HELP HIM OR GIVE HIM MONEY! You need to die on this hill.
What HE WANTS HE HAS TO PAY FOR….and do not help him with payments.
He is reckless and irresponsible with money, that won't change.
You need to leave him. He is immature, irresponsible and has no sense of morals. He should be paying off his debt. With collections trying to get ahold of him, it could turn bac real fast.
Do yourself a favor, make an adult decision and move on, you don't need this in your life at this early stage. You have a good head on your shoulders.
Posting on here, you know what you should do and wanted some back up. LEAVE!
This sounds fake. What kind of injury did you have that they actually gave you pain killers? I had -surgery- and I only got Tylenol. Plus, you were hurt enough you managed to get Vicodin, but were still able to hang with her all weekend? And she doesn’t know the difference between dick size and being impotent? No viagra jokes?
Pretending this is real- your post history includes looking for advice on how to dump a girl with a high body count, I am not feeling terribly sympathetic. This is your karmic pay back for being shallow and judgmental. Hopefully miss high body count and Ciera meet and fall in love.
Jesus man they are just trips. Why don't you go along then?
Yeah then definitely try and get more info out of him It wouldn't be fair to promise you a family if he really changed his mind and just basically stall as long as possible while enjoying the benefits of a relationship / maybe marriage with you. I 100% get you, this would also throw me off and question things because this is now a make-or-break point for you two.
I hope he was honestly trying to comfort you and not just placate you because he knows he effed up. Has he tried to speak to you about it or initiated a talk since?
Why do people always insist that they know nothing is going on between their spouse and someone else when it usually turns out that there is in fact something going on between them?
Your husband knew damn well that giving sex toys to her was inappropriate. This is why he did not tell you. He is either currently fucking her or is trying to fuck her. Watch your back and pay attention.
During the argument, Dad told hubby that he wasn’t good enough for me
What did you say in response to this? Did you defend your husband after this shitty remark or did you secretly agree with your dad and are now reasonably responsible for allowing your dad to continually shit high upon your husband?
You did all of that in a week? You sound kind of ovsessed and stalkerish since yiu went as far as tracking down her new boyfriend to talk to her.
She didn't give you an ultimatum, she told you in no uncertain terms to leave her alone and you repeatedly bulldozed right over the top of her boundaries. There is absolutely nothing to mend. Stay away before you end up with a restraining order.
That's true. I think it's more respect here from the outset if anything, then my beliefs long term. Think I know what to do sadly on Monday.
The former you didn’t threaten your husband. Some men are terrified of successful women, in particular when those women earn more and are on an upward career trajectory. Try marriage counseling to try to realign the marriage, but don’t sacrifice your career or better you, your husband must make some changes.
He obviously does not care about his credit and he doesn't care about yours. It sounds like he is banking on your good credit to get him what he wants.
DO NOT HELP HIM OR GIVE HIM MONEY! You need to die on this hill.
What HE WANTS HE HAS TO PAY FOR….and do not help him with payments.
He is reckless and irresponsible with money, that won't change.
You need to leave him. He is immature, irresponsible and has no sense of morals. He should be paying off his debt. With collections trying to get ahold of him, it could turn bac real fast.
Do yourself a favor, make an adult decision and move on, you don't need this in your life at this early stage. You have a good head on your shoulders.
Posting on here, you know what you should do and wanted some back up. LEAVE!
What is so upsetting about it for you? Also would your wife asking to be a little quieter? Not stop just try keep it down
This sounds fake. What kind of injury did you have that they actually gave you pain killers? I had -surgery- and I only got Tylenol. Plus, you were hurt enough you managed to get Vicodin, but were still able to hang with her all weekend? And she doesn’t know the difference between dick size and being impotent? No viagra jokes?
Pretending this is real- your post history includes looking for advice on how to dump a girl with a high body count, I am not feeling terribly sympathetic. This is your karmic pay back for being shallow and judgmental. Hopefully miss high body count and Ciera meet and fall in love.