Okay we don’t really know so i prefer my less conclusive approach. I don’t like internalizing or projecting negative vibes. I’m too tired to be some fiercely rebarbative commenter anymore.
Why are you doing the work to figure out how to fix his screw up and his careless attitude about your relationship? Let him feel guilty. You shouldn’t be trying to help him figure out a way to make it better. Make him do the work and make the effort. Otherwise if you are doing everything then the results of your very hot work are pointless because he will see he can continue to put you after his friend and you will fix it when he “feels guilty” afterwards.
I don’t understand why so many of you are so desperate to have a husband.
If your husband is a cold hearted idiot, you divorce him. Down the line he will give you so much grief for something else that you’ll regret ever marrying him.
I really don’t understand this level of desperation.
He’s looking to the future and you’re not. You see this as one annoying day or whatever. But he’s thinking, man if we get married her dad is going to demand we get married in his church. And the mom will be involved in EVERYTHING, and the brother will probably be a dickhead.
Or if you have kids they’ll want a say in the name or some shit. And how religious they are etc etc.
If you didn’t online with them maybe it wouldn’t be such a deal, but the fact that you on-line with them he sees you all as a package deal, and he doesn’t want them tied to him.
Which is his choice! A lot of marriages would be happier if people left when they realized they hate their in-laws and the spouse isn’t in a position to distance themselves from that kind of behaviour.
Maybe you’ll find a nice mama’s-boy and your moms can be over the top together and your dads can go fishing and stuff, but it sounds like this guy is gone.
Break up with her, if she's this upset and intentionally causing problems over an accident, imagine how it'll be with real issues
Okay we don’t really know so i prefer my less conclusive approach. I don’t like internalizing or projecting negative vibes. I’m too tired to be some fiercely rebarbative commenter anymore.
I think your gf is lying about the bi experience and is getting ran through by someone else. Timeline doesn’t make sense. Dump her.
Why are you doing the work to figure out how to fix his screw up and his careless attitude about your relationship? Let him feel guilty. You shouldn’t be trying to help him figure out a way to make it better. Make him do the work and make the effort. Otherwise if you are doing everything then the results of your very hot work are pointless because he will see he can continue to put you after his friend and you will fix it when he “feels guilty” afterwards.
Cut her loose… say im going to do beyter by having a gd who isnt actively making moves to replace me while we date. I deserve better
I don’t understand why so many of you are so desperate to have a husband.
If your husband is a cold hearted idiot, you divorce him. Down the line he will give you so much grief for something else that you’ll regret ever marrying him.
I really don’t understand this level of desperation.
Psycho
He’s looking to the future and you’re not. You see this as one annoying day or whatever. But he’s thinking, man if we get married her dad is going to demand we get married in his church. And the mom will be involved in EVERYTHING, and the brother will probably be a dickhead.
Or if you have kids they’ll want a say in the name or some shit. And how religious they are etc etc.
If you didn’t online with them maybe it wouldn’t be such a deal, but the fact that you on-line with them he sees you all as a package deal, and he doesn’t want them tied to him.
Which is his choice! A lot of marriages would be happier if people left when they realized they hate their in-laws and the spouse isn’t in a position to distance themselves from that kind of behaviour.
Maybe you’ll find a nice mama’s-boy and your moms can be over the top together and your dads can go fishing and stuff, but it sounds like this guy is gone.
Let her go. She wants someone else , why keep her. She’ll end up cheating anyways.