Well, binge watching Mandalorian alone is reason enough to dump her. A person who breaks an agreement like that isn’t anyone you want to plan your life with. Who knows what other shows she might cheat on you with. ???
I hate to say this, but it's honestly a natural reaction. Men do it a lot when their wives don't bounce back after pregnancy, and women do it a lot when a guy goes from buff to dad bod. Does it hurt? Hell the fuck yes. But, in this case, I thinks you should forgive her. She's not just asking you to change and then leaving you alone to do it. She's actively being a part of that change. That alone shows you how much she loves you. She's also trying to get healthier and look better for and with you. That says a lot about any partner. Many really would leave their partners to do it themselves. Also, having been in a similar situation, it's not something that can't be changed. You both are already working together to change that. And that's an awesome thing.
Well, binge watching Mandalorian alone is reason enough to dump her. A person who breaks an agreement like that isn’t anyone you want to plan your life with. Who knows what other shows she might cheat on you with. ???
I hate to say this, but it's honestly a natural reaction. Men do it a lot when their wives don't bounce back after pregnancy, and women do it a lot when a guy goes from buff to dad bod. Does it hurt? Hell the fuck yes. But, in this case, I thinks you should forgive her. She's not just asking you to change and then leaving you alone to do it. She's actively being a part of that change. That alone shows you how much she loves you. She's also trying to get healthier and look better for and with you. That says a lot about any partner. Many really would leave their partners to do it themselves. Also, having been in a similar situation, it's not something that can't be changed. You both are already working together to change that. And that's an awesome thing.
Surely this is a typo. You must mean ex-boyfriend
You can't do a thing about your mum, only way this will change is if she really wants it too.
Just focus on yourself, I have lost 115lbs since start of November last year, it can be done!