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Date: October 18, 2022
Captain my captain, I'm using two extremes in this conversation that actually forced a local survey. So I'm not talking “kinda small”…. we are speaking HUGE uncomfortable dick… and MICRO. And unfortunately this was a local study done by a radio show in my area. The radio show does a thing that helps people who had first dates, but got ghosted, try and get a second date.
Long story short a guy got ghosted because he admitted his penis size. The date was apparently great for both besides that. The gentleman admitted his size because he felt comfortable and he had incidents where women(or A woman) walked off after revealing.
This becomes a big thing the radio show tries to get this man a date and it becomes a segment of theirs for a while, and they conducted surveys of if its too big would you leave or ghost and if its too small would you leave or ghost…. the numbers were messed up, and the answers were just as bad. It was 150 or 200 people on the survey. But yeah, it was messed up.
I'm not goning to speculate about his trauma, sometimes we do things we wouldnt normally do when we get triggered. Whats important is that he gets therapy. If this can happen during sex because he got triggered, he is not a safe partner till he has worked trough some things. Violating and humiliating you out of the blue like that because of a trigger, and not being able to stop, could post a serious danger to you.
As a complete hypotethical: If someone does something seemingly innocent that triggers my trauma, and I slap them, I might have done it because I was triggered, but I still harmed that person and made them feel unsafe. They are well within their rights to not want to see me again or at the very least not till I have worked on myself to the point that I'm not a danger to them. While it sucks to have trauma and its horrible to cause harm to others unintentionally, I would have to accept that my actions could now have traumatized someone I cared about and I have to own up to that and do the work to become a safe person to be around.
Her time… wasting her money on me while i cheated, and spend recklessly
Couples therapy will help have the needed discussion without (hopefully) the insults and hurt feelings. It’ll also show that you’re serious about fixing things.