No one feed this pathetic troll. He just resents women for not being as successful at not getting laid as he is, and then tries to incite a reaction from them on posts like this so he can get the attention he so desperately craves.
What is your rush? You are really young and he’s not ready. I’m not surprised that he doesn’t have his future figured out yet and that’s ok, he’s still figuring it out. By the way, what are you doing to work on your goals? And that’s not an accusation or a criticism. I’m sincerely asking. What are you working on currently?
I would cut contact with your family. Sexual abuse can cause lifelong issues. It has for me. The fact that your family is acting like this isn’t a big deal, putting a minor near the offender, and maintaining contact this unforgivable imo. You could tell your brother but be prepared for him not to care, as it seems that’s the message everyone is giving him, that it’s not a big deal. Even from the content of your post I can see you have been conditioned to minimise.
Just to disclose my own bias. I look at porn regularly. Not every day, but at least a few times a week when masturbating. I don't experience sexual dysfunction and it hasn't affected my romantic relationships negatively, which I am very open and communicative within. I don't let it take priority over other things in my life. But it's definitely something I do regularly if I'm bored or can't take my mind off random things.
Well, just remember, there is no waiting it out. Nothing will ever change until you do. If you’d realized this 4-5 years ago, you could’ve been married and successful by now. But don’t fret, the second best time to make a change is now. And thankfully, you still have time for that.
This is WILD projection
No one feed this pathetic troll. He just resents women for not being as successful at not getting laid as he is, and then tries to incite a reaction from them on posts like this so he can get the attention he so desperately craves.
What is your rush? You are really young and he’s not ready. I’m not surprised that he doesn’t have his future figured out yet and that’s ok, he’s still figuring it out. By the way, what are you doing to work on your goals? And that’s not an accusation or a criticism. I’m sincerely asking. What are you working on currently?
I would cut contact with your family. Sexual abuse can cause lifelong issues. It has for me. The fact that your family is acting like this isn’t a big deal, putting a minor near the offender, and maintaining contact this unforgivable imo. You could tell your brother but be prepared for him not to care, as it seems that’s the message everyone is giving him, that it’s not a big deal. Even from the content of your post I can see you have been conditioned to minimise.
Just to disclose my own bias. I look at porn regularly. Not every day, but at least a few times a week when masturbating. I don't experience sexual dysfunction and it hasn't affected my romantic relationships negatively, which I am very open and communicative within. I don't let it take priority over other things in my life. But it's definitely something I do regularly if I'm bored or can't take my mind off random things.
This is complete gibberish. I said nothing of the kind. Your intellectual dishonesty is gross and makes you look bad.
Well, just remember, there is no waiting it out. Nothing will ever change until you do. If you’d realized this 4-5 years ago, you could’ve been married and successful by now. But don’t fret, the second best time to make a change is now. And thankfully, you still have time for that.