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Date: October 9, 2022
Stefa Gomez , ♥, 19 y.o.
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I understand your situation but you have to leave. Mental abuse will harm you and change you more that you think. We do not put our partner above ourselves . Never , they are humans like us ! We should we put another man/woman in a station that he doesn’t belong to. If it is you conception of relationship, then it is a flawed one. If you can’t imagine your life without a partner, then you have co dependency issue and it is a terrible pathology. Your partner told you the truth about how they feels, believe them. You can’t change them. You only can change yourself. A true partner won’t act cowardly and maliciously. It hurts to act like that but it is necessary. There is only tourments contemplating the past with the ifs , would and could. You are not the first or the last one that suffered this kind of hardship. They are real stories that are so horrendous you can’t think that the OP will keep his/her sanity but they get through. They are stories that spanned for years. You are still young, no kids or significant asset in common with your partner. Break you You deserve better
It sounds like he feels trapped in the marriage. Maybe he didn't really want this but felt he had to do it because it was the “next logical step”. He may not have been living by his own life script for some time now and with all the changes and stresses, it just got to be too much and it all came out.
Do not marry this guy! Your expected to give this guy all your money for his dream house?!?!? Let me guess his name will be on the house? Why the heck would you want to marry someone so selfish? Your finding this all out before kids and marriage think long and very hot if this is what you really want.
I know right like Jesus Christ what is this game of thrones and he’s fathering Jon fucking snow?!?! Lol
also seems like it’s easy for him to drop his religion and tradition for something he wants like getting laid but for anything other than that like personal responsibility it’s “nah can’t bro, my background”
Leave him in all seriousness.
This!
I'm still stuck on how he initiates with op..”hey come here and gimme some ass” like this dude must be watching lots of porn
First of, I’m not against doing what makes my partner feel comfortable but I just want to ensure this behavior is not seen as controlling, as I have had issues detecting it before. Fully admit that I have rose-tinted classes on so I’d be biased.
Yes, yes it is controlling. Borderline obsessive behaviour 45 days into the relationship. If you are asking here I don't think you like being abused, so my advice is to cut ties immediately and move on.
Id be agaisnt opening the relationship. If it is anxiety and etc…this might destroy him.
If you have the patience, wait for the therapy a few weeks and see what happens.
Im wondering if you couldnt manage your sexual interests alone part of the time. Or…if he would be willing to join in using a toy on you.
Usually im all for breaking off but…seems like the guy really is giving it his best effort to fix this.
While it might be true that you have different libidos… thats not necessarily a problem as long as you can reach an acceptable middle ground.
Ultimately, it is just a 6 month relationship, even if its a much longer friendship… id say invest some time to see what happens but…if its something you really want…put a deadline for yourself on how long you wait right when you make the decision to wait(if you do).
6 months and living together is crazy. Sounds like she's just using you for free rent.
With no training? So he’s a religious nut? Brilliant.
Could he be neurodivergent? By chance are you? Does he feel/notice/care about this apparent unpopularity?
So you’ll apologize to your brother?
Which one of those wants the other out of your life, though?
Your daughter has made it clear since the start she doesn't want you to have another woman in your life. The fact that she is angry at you at all when you stayed and took part in her wedding when her sister was being born is appalling. She is an adult but is still acting like a bitter, angry child. She has ZERO ground to stand on here.
I'm sorry OP, but you've tried and tried and tried to please your daughter, and it's still not good enough.
It's time for you to set boundaries, and if she wants to have a relationship with you, then she needs to put in the work now. she isn't a child or a teenager. she is fully capable of taking time to come see you, pick up the phone and call you, etc.
Right now, your priority needs to be the newborn that entirely depends on you and your wife. Your baby is FIRST priority. If your daughter wants to see you, great, but it can't conflict with you parenting oyur baby. If your wife needs the day off to go have for herself and your elder daughter wants you to drop everything to help her move or paint a room, you need to choose your second daughter and mind after her.
This is a shitty situation, but it's time to dig in your heels and set firm boundaries. If your daughter throws a fit and has a meltdown, well, I'm sorry but she's an adult and that's on her.
Focus on your wife and baby now.
I don’t think it’s wrong either, I’m just simply stating why Op may be feeling the way they do nothing more nothing less. If someone finds out 10 years later that what they thought of something, turns out not to be the truth that some people may get upset about that. These types of posts aren’t uncommon for this sub what so ever. Some people do get upset and feel like they’re lied to when something like this happens. It’s normal reaction from many people. I’m not sitting here saying either or is right or wrong just that they need to communicate. There are many reasons why the bf never said idk but its out there enough and it bothers OP enough. That to me is lines for at least some form of communication
Getting the popcorn out for this train wreck. I say leave him and work on yourself.
i totally get it! yes i am in therapy it’s definitely something i’m bringing up next time, i was just looking into a few reasons why i might be doing it! thank you so much!
Seconding this. The smaller issue here is that the two women are rude and not good friends, but they were also put in an awkward position of having to throw someone they don’t know that well a bachelorette party. The larger issue is.. why doesn’t your fiancee have any friends? Sure she had a bad childhood or whatever but what about the other 20-ish years? Has she never had any close friends?
Definitely could be hormones. Are you on birth control?