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Date: October 24, 2022
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You need to tell your mom.
No, I tried to forgive mine and eventually caught her attempting to cheat again. It’s not worth the risk. Go find someone who actually loves only you.
Red flag after red flag and I think my mama is colorblind!!! You’re in a bad relationship that is not going to get better because you’re not just going to get over it. It’s pretty much impossible.
If you stay with her and actually marry her, ? then you’ll have to keep that shit to yourself and act like everything is cool all the time. I couldn’t do it but maybe you can. ?♂️
The thing about that is a lot of people at work know we're sleeping together already. They just aren't friends with the bf. So no one has told him. So I don't think anyone would really be surprised if he found out.
It is, there are countless of scientific studies about this topic. It can cause sexual dysfunction due to the “death grip” among other things. Which can make the dick desensitized and mess with actual sex. But it has also proven to be very detrimental to their mental health most of all and they often do not recognize it's a problem. And obviously, it also tends to have bad effects on relationships/marriages.
A lot of the facts are missing here. The post clearly shows his wife dislikes him watching porn and would want him to not watch it at all. That strongly indicates she hasn't liked it the 5 years prior to this incident. People proposing ultimatums don't come out of the blue. I think we are missing a big part of how the wife has been feeling, what she has expressed, etc… in the past 5 years. This argument OP describes seems rather extreme and such arguments have always been a result weeks/months/years of underlying issues that have slowly been growing.
Being an infp I believe in true love and finding your soulmate
A healthy feeling of “soulmate” is most often from deep understanding, routine emotional validation often on the sixth level (google six levels of validation in relationships if not familiar) and familiarity. You can find this in someone, but you can also build it and you can also lose it. So it’s not something inherent or permanent. But when you do feel it, it can be strong and very compelling.
That said from your description what you for O and still have for O sounds like it started as a crush, that’s often from finding in them something you’re missing in your life. What you should have done is break it off with O the moment it got to even a small crush, figure out what that was you were missing in your life that O had and cultivate it in your life either in yourself, with a platonic friend, or with your current partner L. Instead you emotionally cheated. Not cool.
Then you were experiencing the fun honeymoon stage of a crush, but that either calms down into love, or goes bad when the honeymoon period ends, and that’s exactly what happened to you, it went bad. Then you go back to L? So not ok. At least you recognize that was wrong, that you used him as a rebound. But then you dream of O, even though he betrayed you? Come on, this is ridiculous, Os not your soul mate, sounds like he just is better with connecting to you on an emotional level than L. So work on that with L. And to add insult to injury you unblock O, so you opened that door to emotionally cheat again on L? Wtf? Poor L.
So short version, break up with L, he deserves better. As for O, date him or don’t, hot to say because you give no details of the betrayal. You’re feelings now for him could still just be due to a crush, limerance, love bombing on Os part, trauma bonding depending on the betrayal, or you romanticizing what you dont currently have, thinking the honeymoon stage is love, when it’s just a stage.
Dated a girl who would just lay there and op sounds nothing like her, if I was being cynical I’d say he was trying to damage her self esteem to make her do something she wouldn’t normally do.
I'd insist on equal treatment – if he gets to spend 2k on a mini trip (which I find ludicrously expensive for one weekend), you get 2k to spend on yourself – maybe to go on a trip with some good friends of yours while you still can travel. If he doesn't want to take you, take yourself. Hopefully, some of your friends will have time to rock'n roll with you.
Have you ever checked their chats, to see if there's anything hinky going on? You could also use your 2k to hire a PI at the destination they're traveling to, to have him check on whether they are sharing a room/ holding hands or kissing in public, if you really do suspect that there is more than just friendship between them.
Having a healthy body is one of the most important things in life OP. Body fat, especially around the belly area, can lead to health issues down the road
When you are in your 30's and still in shape from the work you put in now you will be happier than when you are out of shape in 30 trying to get into shape. Build a good base, and keep it