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Date: October 7, 2022

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  1. Welp. Did not know “anxious avoidant” would be the new thing I learned about myself today, but here we are.

    Thanks for flagging this lol

  2. I can't think of a single time I've ever had a long enough conversation with a store employee to get this. What are you even talking about? Answer: nothing. Which is why they think you're hitting on them.

  3. From my perspective neither of you are good communicators and neither of you properly understand what boundaries are.

    She doesn't understand that she can't go around talking shit about her BF to people and expect them to still like you. You need to put a firm boundary in place that you won't tolerate it, and explain how you'll be enforcing that boundary.

    Yesterday I convey that I feel like she doesn't want me at her surgery

    What emotions did you mention when you were taking about your feelings here?

  4. Lol amazing watching people bury their heads in the sand like this guy was just being nice buying his brothers gf a $200 present.

  5. If you like her and want to proceed dating, time to research for your own health.

    Please consult a doctor and valid sources. Good luck.

  6. You’re describing the cycle of abuse. Manipulative people can’t be terrible all of the time. That wouldn’t keep the target of their manipulation around. The good times are a device to keep you there through the periods of neglect and poor treatment. He has you trained to hang in there through his day to day neglect for the next period of good times. But as you become more trapped (shared property, marriage, children) the good times become shorter and farther between. Because they aren’t needed to keep you where he wants you. Stuck.

    This man won’t change. He’ll get worse. And you’ll be caring for an infant alone. I had a wonderful partner and infant care was still the most soul crushingly difficult thing I’ve ever done. You’ll be doing it essentially alone. I would urge you to spend some time in the parenting, marriage, and mom subreddits to get a sense of what life is like for women who married people like your fiancé. They are miserable and full of regret. And now they stay to keep their families together, avoid being forced to sell the family home and figure out custody, admit this was a huge mistake, etc.

    Have you ever heard the phrase, “If he wanted to he would.”? He doesn’t. Don’t waste your one precious life marrying someone who doesn’t want to be a partner to you. You’ll deeply regret it.

  7. So, you can only think about stealing the underpants of a person that doesn't have a boyfriend?

    Look, he didn't even DO anything. He had a thought. And, clearly, is unable to share even silly, teenaged, decades-ago, impulsive thoughts with you without disproportionately harsh judgement… that bodes really poorly for the health of the trust in this relationship.

    If you'd really like to blow your own mind, ask him how many times he masturbated while thinking of her.

  8. Weddings are emotional and it’s naked for both future spouses to let go of some of the expectations they had for their big day. Maybe you don’t think it is but walking down the isle is probably a moment your BF is looking forward to as well.

    Find a compromise with him: either play your grandpa’s songs at another time or ask your BF if he wants to decide another important part of the wedding on his own as a compensation?

  9. how is he creating a hostile work environment? She'd be telling her husband stuff that he'd keep to himself. If she can't trust him to do that then how can she trust him with anything else in their marriage?

  10. As to the first part: you can generalise me as a person based on my reaction to this sure. I don’t have much to say there other than yes, I am angry. I’m not stuck on it. But, I am finding nude to move on.

    Second part: Agreed, it is a societal conditioning. But as partners who have worked hard towards breaking societal conditionings that are in place for both genders, I am having a hard time digesting this. I don’t want to elaborate further on this because I feel like it’ll detract from the issue I have raised here, and I don’t want to seem like I’m side tracking the issue at hand.

    As for the rest of what you said, there isn’t anything for us to address together anymore. The issue happened and now it’s done. And I am left feeling like when my issue was affecting the relationship we worked on it as partners, despite how much I didn’t want to talk about it and avoid it and work on it on my own but despite him going through the same thing at roughly the same time, he didn’t include me in it. It honestly feels like he used my issue to cover up and hide his and when it needed to be discussed to resorted to medication rather than let me in and allow me to help him figure it out together.

    This definitely isn’t on the same level as a lot of stuff on this subReddit or any other. But my life is uniquely my own, and regardless of perspective being helpless in most cases, I was hoping for people to consider my story on its own merit and give advice.

    Thank you for your words.

  11. Cut ties. 7 months is the majority of your time together. It’s not worth it. Being with her is not worth your time. If you’re unhappy something has to change and if it’s not gonna be her it has to be you. Cutting ties may be naked, but a lot of the time the things that are good for us are very hot.

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