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Thank you for your response. I've seen this response before and I've thought about it, but everyone else he has dated in the past has been his age, so it doesn't seem like he purposely sought me out for my age. He also has a steady job, is responsible in terms of necessary adult responsibilities, etc. I'm just not sure.
He's the disloyal one, and he's disrespectful of you keeping any contact with this woman. He's just upset and gaslighting you because he sees nothing wrong with his behavior. I'd leave him. There are men out there who would consider themselves lucky to be only yours. This man isn't it.
Ok, install it first yourself to see how it works. Then specifically ask him to give phone/device and if he isn't auto logged to give you password. Something like that.
I do understand they are her past and her memories, I suppose it worries me there are so many and she is going back to them.
I am trying to do things with her and make new memories like you say, but she almost seems reluctant sometimes to include me or we make plans and on the day she just changes her mind like she doesn't want to do the things she likes with me, I guess that is part of why I feel insecure about it like she doesn't want to make new memories and is just wanting to remain in the past.
I will try talking to her about it again she just seemed so dismissive about it like I was wrong to question having so many photos of him. Thank you for your input, I do hope I can overcome this feeling.
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Thank you for your response. I've seen this response before and I've thought about it, but everyone else he has dated in the past has been his age, so it doesn't seem like he purposely sought me out for my age. He also has a steady job, is responsible in terms of necessary adult responsibilities, etc. I'm just not sure.
He's the disloyal one, and he's disrespectful of you keeping any contact with this woman. He's just upset and gaslighting you because he sees nothing wrong with his behavior. I'd leave him. There are men out there who would consider themselves lucky to be only yours. This man isn't it.
Ok, install it first yourself to see how it works. Then specifically ask him to give phone/device and if he isn't auto logged to give you password. Something like that.
I do understand they are her past and her memories, I suppose it worries me there are so many and she is going back to them.
I am trying to do things with her and make new memories like you say, but she almost seems reluctant sometimes to include me or we make plans and on the day she just changes her mind like she doesn't want to do the things she likes with me, I guess that is part of why I feel insecure about it like she doesn't want to make new memories and is just wanting to remain in the past.
I will try talking to her about it again she just seemed so dismissive about it like I was wrong to question having so many photos of him. Thank you for your input, I do hope I can overcome this feeling.