This is not a “you” issue to fix, this is a “her” issue. Walking on eggshells so you dont trigger any angry reactions will be exhausting over time. At some point, if there is no evidence of her working on her anger issues, you should get out of the relationship.
I said the name, not a name. We both agree that names are important. I disagreed with the way that he valued the name, a way that imposed identity onto someone else. And the value he assigned that name was more important to him than understanding why someone might want to change it.
I know what you're trying to argue. What you think you're arguing is correct. I'm telling you that you aren't aiming at the right target and so you picked the wrong argument.
Uhhh /s???
just not a keeper sorry ?♂️
This is not a “you” issue to fix, this is a “her” issue. Walking on eggshells so you dont trigger any angry reactions will be exhausting over time. At some point, if there is no evidence of her working on her anger issues, you should get out of the relationship.
I said the name, not a name. We both agree that names are important. I disagreed with the way that he valued the name, a way that imposed identity onto someone else. And the value he assigned that name was more important to him than understanding why someone might want to change it.
I know what you're trying to argue. What you think you're arguing is correct. I'm telling you that you aren't aiming at the right target and so you picked the wrong argument.