The fact that he’s trying to lie and manipulate you into pretending something is not what it is so early in your marriage makes me wonder what other sort of psychological manipulation is in store for you. I don’t think this is going to get better for you.
Why can’t you make this decision for yourself? Why wait for him to end it? He is in no fit state to be in a relationship right now and you must be able to see that.
Not every family is like this. Toxic families are like this tho. So OP should look for competitiveness, and other kinds of hostility in the family. Those are usually signs of this kind of behavior.
Do you honestly think it was a lie? I know you weren't there when he said it ….but idk anymore
So, how are you treating him? Because most here see a relationship going one-sided in his detriment. What do you bring to the table?
OP sounds narcissistic
The fact that he’s trying to lie and manipulate you into pretending something is not what it is so early in your marriage makes me wonder what other sort of psychological manipulation is in store for you. I don’t think this is going to get better for you.
Why can’t you make this decision for yourself? Why wait for him to end it? He is in no fit state to be in a relationship right now and you must be able to see that.
Sorry but how’d you marry someone who you didn’t live! with and doesn’t want to online with you and your child together
Not every family is like this. Toxic families are like this tho. So OP should look for competitiveness, and other kinds of hostility in the family. Those are usually signs of this kind of behavior.