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I get why you're bothered by that answer, especially if it's the only type of answer he ever gives.
A lot of things go into a compatible relationship, and I think usually part of it is finally finding that person who's a stable presence, and it's totally fine if he appreciates that you were that person, but it is a bit off that he chooses not to name other things about your personality that he loves. Saying he fell in love because you were the only one who stuck around or that the thing he loves most is how well you love him just sounds kinda egocentric.
I would talk it out. I'm sure there are other things about your personality he appreciates and maybe he's not aware of how it affects you when he gives that type of answer.
This is so rude. I could see it being controlling if you didn't live! together and he didn't use your car to be needing to know his every move. But that's not the situation and you don't just use someone's property and get an attitude about it. It's also super disrespectful to your partner to leave them up in the air like this. Rude rude rude. I'd break up, tells you a lot about the person. He's a my-way-or-the+highway type, just like your father.
Think before you speak. Consider her point of view. Avoid the argument altogether. Relationships are about compromise, not winning arguments or complaining to point of causing them.
He’s an adult. No one can “make” him do anything. He’s going to avoid responsibility at all costs, so no matter how you act is going to “be your fault.”
So my partner is a near freak and I was a slob, like slooooob. We have been together for 11 years now. In that time we have come to meet each other in the middle, he will often get to the more nit picky stuff before I do but general household tasks and cleaning up after ourselves is a joint task. Yes, we had some ups and downs with it but you have to be willing to compromise with each other and at the end of the day a clean home is a sign of outward respect to you and your partner. How many sit down, serious, conversations have happened between the two of you about this?
I get why you're bothered by that answer, especially if it's the only type of answer he ever gives.
A lot of things go into a compatible relationship, and I think usually part of it is finally finding that person who's a stable presence, and it's totally fine if he appreciates that you were that person, but it is a bit off that he chooses not to name other things about your personality that he loves. Saying he fell in love because you were the only one who stuck around or that the thing he loves most is how well you love him just sounds kinda egocentric.
I would talk it out. I'm sure there are other things about your personality he appreciates and maybe he's not aware of how it affects you when he gives that type of answer.
This is so rude. I could see it being controlling if you didn't live! together and he didn't use your car to be needing to know his every move. But that's not the situation and you don't just use someone's property and get an attitude about it. It's also super disrespectful to your partner to leave them up in the air like this. Rude rude rude. I'd break up, tells you a lot about the person. He's a my-way-or-the+highway type, just like your father.
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Think before you speak. Consider her point of view. Avoid the argument altogether. Relationships are about compromise, not winning arguments or complaining to point of causing them.
He’s an adult. No one can “make” him do anything. He’s going to avoid responsibility at all costs, so no matter how you act is going to “be your fault.”
Please, get somewhere safe, OP.
Im so glad i live! alone. The only screaming in my home is done by my cat.
So my partner is a near freak and I was a slob, like slooooob. We have been together for 11 years now. In that time we have come to meet each other in the middle, he will often get to the more nit picky stuff before I do but general household tasks and cleaning up after ourselves is a joint task. Yes, we had some ups and downs with it but you have to be willing to compromise with each other and at the end of the day a clean home is a sign of outward respect to you and your partner. How many sit down, serious, conversations have happened between the two of you about this?