Your wife is being selfish. I wanted to do the JET programme for a few years, but when I met my partner I realised I couldn't persue a serious relationship in one country whilst also actively planning on moving to the other side of the world. It wouldn't have been fair to her.
Also, JET only requires a bachelors degree to apply. She should know that.
She will regret a little bit more once she finds out you won't be getting back with her again.
Please OP and do not do this to yourself. When someone shows you who they are, it's best to believe them and she showed you through her past behaviour who she really is.
You do not want to tie yourself to someone like this.
No one should ever be in a position where they have to prove their trustworthiness. It's a fools errand and sadly for you her actions right at the start of the relationship has just spoiled everything. It will always be there and will just taint everything.
End of the day, you will never be sure of her intentions, of your trust in her. As I said, it just poisons everything.
You don’t need to find anyone else attractive right now to get out of the shitty relationship with your current boyfriend.
Moving in together after 1 month and having this many issues within 9 months of a relationship tells me that you’d probably benefit from spending some time single, as well as a lot of therapy.
You create a fake account, match with her, and then message her and tell her the divorce papers are on their way.
Yes I've been with him for 2 years and he just met her less than a week ago
Dude, you have an exaggerated sense of importance.
Your wife is being selfish. I wanted to do the JET programme for a few years, but when I met my partner I realised I couldn't persue a serious relationship in one country whilst also actively planning on moving to the other side of the world. It wouldn't have been fair to her.
Also, JET only requires a bachelors degree to apply. She should know that.
She will regret a little bit more once she finds out you won't be getting back with her again.
Please OP and do not do this to yourself. When someone shows you who they are, it's best to believe them and she showed you through her past behaviour who she really is.
You do not want to tie yourself to someone like this.
No one should ever be in a position where they have to prove their trustworthiness. It's a fools errand and sadly for you her actions right at the start of the relationship has just spoiled everything. It will always be there and will just taint everything.
End of the day, you will never be sure of her intentions, of your trust in her. As I said, it just poisons everything.
How is me breaking up with her over her leaning on a coworker like this insecure???
You don’t need to find anyone else attractive right now to get out of the shitty relationship with your current boyfriend.
Moving in together after 1 month and having this many issues within 9 months of a relationship tells me that you’d probably benefit from spending some time single, as well as a lot of therapy.