I’m sure it’s sucks very much to be told that… but you claim to underhand where he’s coming from so what do you intent do to? It’s fine to be happy with your weight as is if that’s your prerogative, but then where do y’all go from here.
Sure there are good men out there, don't let one bad egg spoil all men for you. Your judgement was fine, like you said, you were already feeling uncomfortable. Just because you didn't realise straight away, doesn't mean your judgement is off.
She had a meningioma last May and has had it removed. The reason I don't belive it's linked is because my wife gives 100% into everything else, our children, her family, her freinds, everything but me. If it was linked to the tumor and a behaviour change surely other people would notice her interactions with them too but they dont.
It’s ok. I put myself in this situation but he was playing the “ I’m this good guy “ card for a year and than once it a SAHM that’s when he started showing his true colors and drinking issues 🙁
Even if he was convinced to see a therapist again? (He saw one for a few months but didn’t take her seriously. I’ve always thought a male therapist might help more).
In so many ways we’re perfect together. But then there are things like this. He also gets extremely humiliated if he feels I’ve “shown him up” — he won’t play board games with me bc I win at them, or if I solve a game puzzle when he can’t, or understand a poem that he can’t, etc.
It is going to be a journey together now, I am glad you took pictures with you.
Remember you had influence for many years so that counts for a lot. I really really hope it all goes well.
You may need to go back to court for child support and help with college.
seem like she hasn't meet anybody worth trying to learn of to said thing she is lacking. I am sorry…but she can learn thus skill.
You don't need to stay or accept emotionally invalid form anybody.
I’m sure it’s sucks very much to be told that… but you claim to underhand where he’s coming from so what do you intent do to? It’s fine to be happy with your weight as is if that’s your prerogative, but then where do y’all go from here.
What exactly IS the bigger picture of your future? What's the plan?
“No thank you.”
Dump her because you also don't sound ready to date yet.
Two wrongs don't make a right. 1.5 months in and you're snooping. This relationship isn't going to last.
If you're not ok with it, break up. Don't mention that you looked through her phone though, that was a dick move.
Sure there are good men out there, don't let one bad egg spoil all men for you. Your judgement was fine, like you said, you were already feeling uncomfortable. Just because you didn't realise straight away, doesn't mean your judgement is off.
She had a meningioma last May and has had it removed. The reason I don't belive it's linked is because my wife gives 100% into everything else, our children, her family, her freinds, everything but me. If it was linked to the tumor and a behaviour change surely other people would notice her interactions with them too but they dont.
It’s ok. I put myself in this situation but he was playing the “ I’m this good guy “ card for a year and than once it a SAHM that’s when he started showing his true colors and drinking issues 🙁
Even if he was convinced to see a therapist again? (He saw one for a few months but didn’t take her seriously. I’ve always thought a male therapist might help more).
In so many ways we’re perfect together. But then there are things like this. He also gets extremely humiliated if he feels I’ve “shown him up” — he won’t play board games with me bc I win at them, or if I solve a game puzzle when he can’t, or understand a poem that he can’t, etc.