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He has told you no repeatedly. YOU are the one being selfish and disrespectful. YOU have decided your need is more important than his boundary.
It’s perfectly fine that photos are important to you. But you can’t make him want to do it. He already told you he doesn’t want to. You are being rude now. Accept this, or move on to someone who values photos like you do.
Yes. I found out about it from my friends gf who is a hair stylist who happened to be working on his APs aunt and talking about how shady he was to her niece. It was literally the weirdest moment of the whole universe coming together to get me out. Also, It sucked and was very hot to prove and the girl was stupid and called him before me. It was a mess. But it’s always a mess. Tell her.
It just doesn’t sound like you’d need the money, so I’m not sure it’s worth mentioning. You really should be preparing for what happens if both of you are no longer around. What happens if god forbid your wife dies first? Who gets your money then? That’s who you should be putting in your will.
It seems you and bf have a parallel life situation: single person caregiving for another, in his case a parent, in your case a child. Each feels to give the best life to their loved one, they can't move.
What are you thinking? start over with a different mate? How likely would it be to find one?
Sure, it’s pretty disgusting. Two hundred years ago everyone had chamber pots under the bed and it was normal. But in this day and age it’s not normal, and people don’t do it without some weird logic. This is definitely something that can be worked through and is probably a bad habit formed over a period of time. People have bad habits. But people can break bad habits with time, patience, and work.
My cat yowls too….I have accidentally trained him to come to me when I spray him with water because I feel guilty anytime I resort to using it and always go to him and apologize. At 2 am you get pretty desperate.
My ex was very controlling about similar stuff. He would make snide comments scoffing about me being cold in the winter too naked in the house in the summer. He was controlling over the shower too complaining that I took too long (he insisted on ship showers and is refused that nonsense).
I'm on my own now and keeping the house at a reasonable temperature for me isn't expensive. Also I discovered my showers aren't that long at all, less than 10 mins.
I feel you already have closure – the relationship is over. You likely didn’t do anything wrong, she just didn’t feel the way the was hoping she would – either because you are male and she might realise that she does really just likes women or one of another million reasons, which have nothing to do with you. Sometimes everything is right and the spark is just not there, which really sucks if the spark was very much there for the other person.
The moving past part will be harder – likely you need to cut off contact for a while. Be honest – tell her that you are taking the breakup very hard and need some time to yourself. Maybe do some travelling, pick up a new hobby, something like that. Also look for better friends, because being made fun off after a breakup or for others to just go “meh”, seriously sucks. You absolutely deserve better than that.
At first I thought she broke up with you because you bought her expired makeup and was offended. No, l wouldn't apologise especially if the break up was rough. Also, letting her know now that the lipstick is expired might come off as condescending.
My advice is move on, because “if they wanted to, they would”. If he wanted to reach out to you, he would. If he wanted to be your boyfriend, he would. He wanted to break up with you, so he did.
He started all of this and has not reached out to you, so let him be! No response IS a response.
And reaching out to him in my opinion is degrading to yourself. Have some self respect and move on. One of the most pathetic things you can do is beg him to come back or write walls of text to him. It's such a turn off. I've been in your situation and it took everything I had not to reach out to him, so I didn't. And I got to feel great about it!
Well… for starters, I’d be making damn sure your pics are off his phone and iCloud or what have you. Secondly, I find it hot to believe that these girls are from over 2 years ago. Especially when you just seen how he’s been doing this recently on Chaturbate. Being lied to sucks. But he’s THAT guy. That bro who shows all his other bros the pics of chicks that “want him to see them hot.” Like some kind of “Alpha male” among them when really it’s just so immature. And no offence.. but what a loser.
Like someone else said in these comments.. probably good reason to suspect that he’s done the same with you and your pics and your sex life.
And I really really hope that this isn’t a blow to your self esteem. If anything, you’ve now seen him in a different and disgusting piggish light. Not only has he disrespected you and your relationship and trust but he’s also disrespectful to women in general.
I mean, kudos to him for actually showing you the secret folder and for fessing up.. even though, I’d take it as half truths… but at the same time.. it doesn’t seem to bother him that much. The fact that he admits he shows them to all his friends and whatnot kind of tells me that he sees it as no big deal.
Anyway… I know people here are saying to break up with him, but it’s easier said than done- I get it. However, I do think you need to do some reflecting and perhaps re-evaluate things.
Who knows what else he’s keeping from you or lying about. That’s the part that really sucks and I’m so sorry.
He has told you no repeatedly. YOU are the one being selfish and disrespectful. YOU have decided your need is more important than his boundary.
It’s perfectly fine that photos are important to you. But you can’t make him want to do it. He already told you he doesn’t want to. You are being rude now. Accept this, or move on to someone who values photos like you do.
Yes. I found out about it from my friends gf who is a hair stylist who happened to be working on his APs aunt and talking about how shady he was to her niece. It was literally the weirdest moment of the whole universe coming together to get me out. Also, It sucked and was very hot to prove and the girl was stupid and called him before me. It was a mess. But it’s always a mess. Tell her.
It just doesn’t sound like you’d need the money, so I’m not sure it’s worth mentioning. You really should be preparing for what happens if both of you are no longer around. What happens if god forbid your wife dies first? Who gets your money then? That’s who you should be putting in your will.
It seems you and bf have a parallel life situation: single person caregiving for another, in his case a parent, in your case a child. Each feels to give the best life to their loved one, they can't move.
What are you thinking? start over with a different mate? How likely would it be to find one?
Mom isn’t snogging you. Shaving is temporary. Go with gf.
Sure, it’s pretty disgusting. Two hundred years ago everyone had chamber pots under the bed and it was normal. But in this day and age it’s not normal, and people don’t do it without some weird logic. This is definitely something that can be worked through and is probably a bad habit formed over a period of time. People have bad habits. But people can break bad habits with time, patience, and work.
My cat yowls too….I have accidentally trained him to come to me when I spray him with water because I feel guilty anytime I resort to using it and always go to him and apologize. At 2 am you get pretty desperate.
It’s up to you man, if you don’t feel confident/comfortable about it you can always leave as in any relationship.
My ex was very controlling about similar stuff. He would make snide comments scoffing about me being cold in the winter too naked in the house in the summer. He was controlling over the shower too complaining that I took too long (he insisted on ship showers and is refused that nonsense).
I'm on my own now and keeping the house at a reasonable temperature for me isn't expensive. Also I discovered my showers aren't that long at all, less than 10 mins.
He won't get better about this.
The more parents the better!
My partner doesn't like step dad, he refers to himself as “bonus Dad” which is cute.
I feel you already have closure – the relationship is over. You likely didn’t do anything wrong, she just didn’t feel the way the was hoping she would – either because you are male and she might realise that she does really just likes women or one of another million reasons, which have nothing to do with you. Sometimes everything is right and the spark is just not there, which really sucks if the spark was very much there for the other person.
The moving past part will be harder – likely you need to cut off contact for a while. Be honest – tell her that you are taking the breakup very hard and need some time to yourself. Maybe do some travelling, pick up a new hobby, something like that. Also look for better friends, because being made fun off after a breakup or for others to just go “meh”, seriously sucks. You absolutely deserve better than that.
At first I thought she broke up with you because you bought her expired makeup and was offended. No, l wouldn't apologise especially if the break up was rough. Also, letting her know now that the lipstick is expired might come off as condescending.
And give him permission to jump in a volcano! Scratch that, no child support or alimony if he did.
Been there!
My advice is move on, because “if they wanted to, they would”. If he wanted to reach out to you, he would. If he wanted to be your boyfriend, he would. He wanted to break up with you, so he did.
He started all of this and has not reached out to you, so let him be! No response IS a response.
And reaching out to him in my opinion is degrading to yourself. Have some self respect and move on. One of the most pathetic things you can do is beg him to come back or write walls of text to him. It's such a turn off. I've been in your situation and it took everything I had not to reach out to him, so I didn't. And I got to feel great about it!
Well… for starters, I’d be making damn sure your pics are off his phone and iCloud or what have you. Secondly, I find it hot to believe that these girls are from over 2 years ago. Especially when you just seen how he’s been doing this recently on Chaturbate. Being lied to sucks. But he’s THAT guy. That bro who shows all his other bros the pics of chicks that “want him to see them hot.” Like some kind of “Alpha male” among them when really it’s just so immature. And no offence.. but what a loser.
Like someone else said in these comments.. probably good reason to suspect that he’s done the same with you and your pics and your sex life.
And I really really hope that this isn’t a blow to your self esteem. If anything, you’ve now seen him in a different and disgusting piggish light. Not only has he disrespected you and your relationship and trust but he’s also disrespectful to women in general.
I mean, kudos to him for actually showing you the secret folder and for fessing up.. even though, I’d take it as half truths… but at the same time.. it doesn’t seem to bother him that much. The fact that he admits he shows them to all his friends and whatnot kind of tells me that he sees it as no big deal.
Anyway… I know people here are saying to break up with him, but it’s easier said than done- I get it. However, I do think you need to do some reflecting and perhaps re-evaluate things.
Who knows what else he’s keeping from you or lying about. That’s the part that really sucks and I’m so sorry.