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Date: October 21, 2022
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Sounds like you have some work to do healing from that relationship. I used to date someone who was incredibly suspicious and stingy and had a ton of money. He always thought I was trying to take advantage of him even though I never asked him for anything outside of the norm. For instance I once asked him to watch my cat for three days when he lived 15 minutes away. He sent me an itemized bill of $23.46 for his labor, gas and “wear and tear” on his car. Meanwhile he would drop $1,600 on a coat for himself. He always made me pay for myself on our “dates”. Later in this five year relationship he gave me one generous gift of a limited edition Nintendo switch valued around $350 which I was incredibly grateful for. When I ended the relationship he forcibly took it back from me. He always made me feel like I had done something wrong and was undeserving.
My current boyfriend makes less money than my ex, and I still never ask him for anything outside of the norm. He insisted to take care of my cat free of charge when I was gone for a few days. For my birthday, only six months into our relationship, he gifted me $300 headphones. He always buys our meals, buys me coffee, picks up random little treats for me, all without me ever asking or expecting these things. His generosity makes me feel so special! He also does things for me like opening doors, doing chores in my apartment without being asked, cooking, and other acts of service.
I would caution against making your current girlfriend pay for the toxic situation you went through with your ex. I see your trust was damaged and I encourage you to seek some counseling because surely, you went through some difficult things that had an impact on you and I’m sorry for that. My hope for you is that you have healthy and happy relationships moving forward and that you make your girlfriend feel the way my current boyfriend makes me feel, not the way my ex made me feel. You might push your girlfriend into feeling the way I did with my ex if you’re not careful. There is nothing wrong with a woman wanting to be treated well. My boyfriend tells me all the time I deserve to be spoiled. He makes me feel really special. If you don’t feel like your girlfriend is worth the effort, let her go.
What the hell are you talking about? Was not trying to shame the victim or anyone else. Jesus Christ – try to have a balanced perspective.
Don't admit to anything bro. Trying to tell you
I completely agree.
I never said she had to stay….
I simply said to call him a bad person, for taking care of someone, is fundamentally selfish.
Already married. Made the decision. If she meets up with the ex, an affair will blossom. Eventually if not immediately
That’s kind of a red flag on his part, like he wants to control you. Your weekends sound amazing! Don’t let him wear you down!