Look, you really should avoid girls that are taken in general. Other reasons for just the moral aspect also. But been there before, I didn't know at first and slowly came to my senses and told the guy. That was a bit more complicated as they were married.
If she was doing it in good faith, she wouldn't have hid it from you. She would have spoken to you and said something like:
“I am having a nude time finding work that won't interfere with my education. I was wondering if you would be okay with me engaging in no-nudity sex work? I feel like that would be both very lucrative and non-disruptive to my education. I know this is shocking, so please take some time to really think this over, and do not hesitate to ask whatever questions you have before you answer.”
Instead, she decided unilaterally that this was right, and that makes it wrong. She fid not consider your feelings in any way, and that is fucked up. She neither trusted you enough to have the conversation, nor respected you enough to tell you the truth. And now we have to wonder if she is telling the truth? How do we know she doesn't engage in nude cam siting from time to time? How do we know she was planning to save up for a home? How do we know she would have just remained in virtual sex work? What she did is wrong, and would be a hard red line for me.
This is a big no from here. The fact that this topic was brought up any time other than when you two were alone is a big problem. This was done to pressure you.
whatever your reasons for waiting are not really the issue. Its the communication that is now the issue here. You will need to address this as you move forward with her
This guy is talking to his cat while on the phone with his girlfriend, praises the cat more than her before belittling her because she's not confident enough?
Her friends will be annoyed with her at most. THEY all know they slept with her, and they have no problems being friends. Him not knowing isn't going to upset them, they're just astonished that it hasn't come up.
Which means, to her, this whole thing is probably a non-issue. She's so used to her former lovers being friends, that she thinks it's natural. Afterall, it has been for years.
Today she saw me and kept on smiling even though I tried not to look. I really dont want to have a drama and issue with her boyfriend but at the same time I feel like Im lucky to get her attention ngl !
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Look, you really should avoid girls that are taken in general. Other reasons for just the moral aspect also. But been there before, I didn't know at first and slowly came to my senses and told the guy. That was a bit more complicated as they were married.
What are you going to do?
If she was doing it in good faith, she wouldn't have hid it from you. She would have spoken to you and said something like:
“I am having a nude time finding work that won't interfere with my education. I was wondering if you would be okay with me engaging in no-nudity sex work? I feel like that would be both very lucrative and non-disruptive to my education. I know this is shocking, so please take some time to really think this over, and do not hesitate to ask whatever questions you have before you answer.”
Instead, she decided unilaterally that this was right, and that makes it wrong. She fid not consider your feelings in any way, and that is fucked up. She neither trusted you enough to have the conversation, nor respected you enough to tell you the truth. And now we have to wonder if she is telling the truth? How do we know she doesn't engage in nude cam siting from time to time? How do we know she was planning to save up for a home? How do we know she would have just remained in virtual sex work? What she did is wrong, and would be a hard red line for me.
This is a big no from here. The fact that this topic was brought up any time other than when you two were alone is a big problem. This was done to pressure you.
whatever your reasons for waiting are not really the issue. Its the communication that is now the issue here. You will need to address this as you move forward with her
Atleast it was only 6 months and found out how immature she is .
The problem isn’t elbows. It’s out drinking till 3 with other men.
Now OP knows why he looked in the kiddie pool for a date – he hoped someone 12 years younger would put up with his tantrums.
How does he rate his own personality?
This guy is talking to his cat while on the phone with his girlfriend, praises the cat more than her before belittling her because she's not confident enough?
He doesn't look like a price
Her friends will be annoyed with her at most. THEY all know they slept with her, and they have no problems being friends. Him not knowing isn't going to upset them, they're just astonished that it hasn't come up.
Which means, to her, this whole thing is probably a non-issue. She's so used to her former lovers being friends, that she thinks it's natural. Afterall, it has been for years.
Today she saw me and kept on smiling even though I tried not to look. I really dont want to have a drama and issue with her boyfriend but at the same time I feel like Im lucky to get her attention ngl !