I live in Poland, women's day is a pretty big thing in post-Soviet countries. It is celebrated by giving flowers or other small gifts (like chocolate for exame) to the women in your life, like your mother, coworkers, close friends and significant other. Most men do not give flowers to their friends but they definitely so to their mom and/or S.O.
Two possible outcomes here: either she will never be able to look at the two of you the same again, or they’re just curious and you’re the beard. There are 0 good outcomes in a threesome that involves her best friend.
He’s completely full of shit. There’s a reason his “job got messed up”, but it wasn’t Covid. Or at least Covid isn’t the reason he wasn’t back to normal within a month or two back in 2020. There was a major dip in construction work right at the beginning but f the pandemic, March 2020, but they were back to work within a couple months and then the construction industry boomed throughout the rest of Covid, and still is. So much so construction companies couldn’t and still can’t find enough people and will take damn near anyone with a pulse that will show up. Felony? Nah. They were at “just don’t smoke meth on the job” by late summer 2020. In 2023 they’re at “ok just don’t smoke the meth right in front of the customer”.
From a March 15, 2023 article from Associated Builders and Contractors (trade association):
the construction industry is facing a labor shortage and must hire an additional 545,000 workers this year beyond its typical pace in order to meet expected demand. The trade association reports one in four construction workers is older than 55 and there aren't enough younger workers to replace them.
His employment issues are his fault. Don’t let him bullshit you otherwise. He’s got to be a real loser or serious problem to be unable to find full time, steady work in constriction right now.
He’s lying to you. The real reason is more likely that he’s lazy and doesn’t actually want to work.
Try to think with your head that has a brain in it
You need to tell his girlfriend. No deserves to be treated like that.
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Yeah, I'd opt for dumping him over backing him down. I feel like that would just allow him to justify sneaky cheatingto himself.
Do you look after the kids ? I suggest you take time off work at look after the kids 24-7 and THEN maybe you will understand why she’s so tired
Thank you 🙂 I feel like I could go on and on but hopefully OP is able to take something from it.
I live in Poland, women's day is a pretty big thing in post-Soviet countries. It is celebrated by giving flowers or other small gifts (like chocolate for exame) to the women in your life, like your mother, coworkers, close friends and significant other. Most men do not give flowers to their friends but they definitely so to their mom and/or S.O.
Two possible outcomes here: either she will never be able to look at the two of you the same again, or they’re just curious and you’re the beard. There are 0 good outcomes in a threesome that involves her best friend.
You're gonna be downvoted here, no one seems to get what you said here.
He’s completely full of shit. There’s a reason his “job got messed up”, but it wasn’t Covid. Or at least Covid isn’t the reason he wasn’t back to normal within a month or two back in 2020. There was a major dip in construction work right at the beginning but f the pandemic, March 2020, but they were back to work within a couple months and then the construction industry boomed throughout the rest of Covid, and still is. So much so construction companies couldn’t and still can’t find enough people and will take damn near anyone with a pulse that will show up. Felony? Nah. They were at “just don’t smoke meth on the job” by late summer 2020. In 2023 they’re at “ok just don’t smoke the meth right in front of the customer”.
From a March 15, 2023 article from Associated Builders and Contractors (trade association):
the construction industry is facing a labor shortage and must hire an additional 545,000 workers this year beyond its typical pace in order to meet expected demand. The trade association reports one in four construction workers is older than 55 and there aren't enough younger workers to replace them.
His employment issues are his fault. Don’t let him bullshit you otherwise. He’s got to be a real loser or serious problem to be unable to find full time, steady work in constriction right now.
He’s lying to you. The real reason is more likely that he’s lazy and doesn’t actually want to work.
Kick him out. He’s abusive and volatile.