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I’m gonna borrow a quote from one Ross Geller, “THEY WERE ON A BREAK!!”
In all seriousness I can understand feeling hurt about the lies but if you guys were on a break and he chose to hook up with other people but you didn’t, that’s a you problem and not him problem. But the lying would be a red flag for me personally
Let Allan go NC. He and his girlfriend are absolutely out of pocket. I can’t imagine being at someone funeral and asking for their belongings from the fucking altar. Jesus God in heaven…
You are literally not understanding. NOT EVERYTHING HAS TO BE POSTED ON SM!! If there is something that is very triggering for my mom, I would NEVER post about it on SM. Ever! Because I care about her feelings. Does it suck? Yes. Will I do it for her because I care about her feelings? Also yes. By just blocking her from seeing certain posts seems super sneaky and dishonest and she will eventually find out from someone else, which would be 200% worse.
Honestly, dad and stepmom sounds like awful people and it seems like not only were they having an affair that they were pretty awful through the divorce process. Now they are throwing their new happy family in mom’s face via SM and he’s helping them. No wonder she can’t move on. I don’t think OP realizes that he’s doing it which is why I said he need to start looking at himself and what his roll in all this is.
Look, my parents were divorced and I went through something similar so I completely understand. OP needs realize he is part of the problem. He is talking about them to his mom and he is posting about them on SM and while he thinks there is nothing wrong with his behavior, he is clearly doing and saying very hurtful things to his mom.
His friend (who is notorious for saving exs nudes. And a complete bastard)
Clue number one, if you ask me. If this is the kind of person he's cool hanging out with…
I suppose he gets a point for not going through with it, but that's a huge blow to your self-esteem and trust in him. Now you will constantly be wondering if you never found out if he would have kept up this behavior, leading to something actually happening. You'll be worried every time he isn't home.
Really, it's up to you whether or not the fact that he thought better of it is good enough for you and whether or not you even want to try to rebuild the trust. You have time, though. You don't have to decide right this moment.
This is basically what I’ve been doing the last year and am happy to keep being friends, even if it stays there forever. Thank you for the reminder of a totally good third option 🙂
Yeah food prep is a lot of work but I was trying to think of a solution that wasn’t “go to therapy”. I don’t think an ultimatum will work and this many years in I doubt she’s going to discover a passion for cooking.
It’s sad because he truly is one of the kindest, hardworking people I’ve ever met. I don’t want to give too much identifying personal information but he saves people’s lives in the worst neighborhood in our city and gets paid garbage for it but he stays because he loves his job. If I was someone in need of help I’d feel a lot better about him being the one to come and help me
I’m gonna borrow a quote from one Ross Geller, “THEY WERE ON A BREAK!!”
In all seriousness I can understand feeling hurt about the lies but if you guys were on a break and he chose to hook up with other people but you didn’t, that’s a you problem and not him problem. But the lying would be a red flag for me personally
Let Allan go NC. He and his girlfriend are absolutely out of pocket. I can’t imagine being at someone funeral and asking for their belongings from the fucking altar. Jesus God in heaven…
Where has this way of thinking come from? In your childhood was it similar with your parents?
I honestly think you need some help on this. It’s normal to share the load money wise. There’s no weakness.
This is obviously bothering you and is something you aren’t comfortable with – please look at getting help before it passes on to your son.
You are literally not understanding. NOT EVERYTHING HAS TO BE POSTED ON SM!! If there is something that is very triggering for my mom, I would NEVER post about it on SM. Ever! Because I care about her feelings. Does it suck? Yes. Will I do it for her because I care about her feelings? Also yes. By just blocking her from seeing certain posts seems super sneaky and dishonest and she will eventually find out from someone else, which would be 200% worse.
Honestly, dad and stepmom sounds like awful people and it seems like not only were they having an affair that they were pretty awful through the divorce process. Now they are throwing their new happy family in mom’s face via SM and he’s helping them. No wonder she can’t move on. I don’t think OP realizes that he’s doing it which is why I said he need to start looking at himself and what his roll in all this is.
Look, my parents were divorced and I went through something similar so I completely understand. OP needs realize he is part of the problem. He is talking about them to his mom and he is posting about them on SM and while he thinks there is nothing wrong with his behavior, he is clearly doing and saying very hurtful things to his mom.
His friend (who is notorious for saving exs nudes. And a complete bastard)
Clue number one, if you ask me. If this is the kind of person he's cool hanging out with…
I suppose he gets a point for not going through with it, but that's a huge blow to your self-esteem and trust in him. Now you will constantly be wondering if you never found out if he would have kept up this behavior, leading to something actually happening. You'll be worried every time he isn't home.
Really, it's up to you whether or not the fact that he thought better of it is good enough for you and whether or not you even want to try to rebuild the trust. You have time, though. You don't have to decide right this moment.
This is basically what I’ve been doing the last year and am happy to keep being friends, even if it stays there forever. Thank you for the reminder of a totally good third option 🙂
So they both may have cheated (OP for certain)
That sounds really unbalanced.
Yeah food prep is a lot of work but I was trying to think of a solution that wasn’t “go to therapy”. I don’t think an ultimatum will work and this many years in I doubt she’s going to discover a passion for cooking.
It’s sad because he truly is one of the kindest, hardworking people I’ve ever met. I don’t want to give too much identifying personal information but he saves people’s lives in the worst neighborhood in our city and gets paid garbage for it but he stays because he loves his job. If I was someone in need of help I’d feel a lot better about him being the one to come and help me