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He thinks we were together because I’d taken a shower at his brothers house, my hair was wet and his brother was in a towel answered the door and my husband flipped when he saw me wet too. He’s that paranoid. He’s told everyone that story now.
Of course he did. This isn't him being 0aranoid this is you either sleeping with his brother or showing the worst judgement ever. From your post it sounds awful intimate with the brother. I don't blame your husband.
Get a lawyer and start paternity tests. Even if they are his kids, I wouldn't blame him for the divorce
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hopefully he will understand that loving you included respecting your choices and if you choose not to enjoy certain types of movies then he should not be pressuring you to watch them. Another example: not triggering to me but just flat out boring to watch (to me): most sports. He knows that if I’m not around he can watch ESPN, football, whatever, all day. But if we’re both watching, we are not doing that. Similarly, I don’t force him to watch any Lifetime or Hallmark movies with me. It’s just respecting each other and watching a movie we both enjoy
Well, first starters, this is your first reletionship. You're most likely going to make mistakes along the way. Relationships are a skill to develop in of itself. So, be forgiving of yourself if certain things aren't perfect.
Some good things to do is always communicate your side. Communication builds trust. It also ensures that the both of you are on the same page about everything. If you voice certain things and its completely tossed out the window, like your opinion doesn't matter… red flag. However, if you communicate, he hears you, want's to improve things on his side for you, green flag.
Your reletionship is not always going to be sunshine and roses (although, it should be for the most part) At some point you two are going to have conflicts, and how you two handle those will determine if your reletionship is healthy or not. You should be leaving those incidents with proper resolution. At the end of it, be brought closer together with a better mutual understanding of the other person. If you do not, your reletionship is showing signs of dysfunctional.
Always continue to go on dates, this keeps the spark thriving.
Always talk about your future goals, ensure that you both are on the same page about the direction of your reletionship.
Understand that you two are completely different people that you're trying to blend together. There is bound to be some issues along the way. Be forgiving of this. It's not a competition. Its about finding harmony and making sure you both are meeting the others side fulfillment.
Its also a good idea to think about what you require out of your reletionship. Everyone has a different idea of what it means to be loved. How you need to be loved might be different than how he needs to be loved. And the goal for the other person is to do their best in adapting to their partners needs without it causing pain for the other.
And at the end of it… if your reletionship is causing you more grief than happiness, you're in a toxic reletionship and should consider ending it. Your reletionship should always be a source of love. Not something that generates pain in your life.
……what?
Don't be in a relationship with someone who you can't be honest with and everything is your fault. Your family may be mad if you break up with him but they're not the ones he's hurting, they're not the ones who have to deal with him. They'll probably get over it faster than you're going to get over the trauma he's dealing you.
In your own words you feel you’re being neglected, but it’s not because she isn’t giving attention to anybody, she’s giving it to him. I’d recommend getting some perspective of what an emotional affair is at r/survivinginfidelity and r/cheating_stories
It is time to let go of this relationship mourn and move on. Go home if you need to just take care of yourself. When he broke up with you had no more responsibility to check on you. I’m sorry you’re going through this but I’ll help you develop some strength and give you more coping skills.
Therapy. But also.. it's only been a week. Of course you are in shock and depressed.
Unfortunately it will take a long time before things feel normal again, you must be kind to yourself and not expect yourself to get over it anytime soon. Baby steps. Grief is a long road, and with a traumatic death it doesn't just go away.. really, ever. It gets better and better but it will always be a part of you.
I am so sorry you're going through this. Were you close to her family?