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Taydoblickyy, 26 y.o.
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Date: January 9, 2023
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Firstly the friend of your wife, based on your description, is am abuser. Its not just a simple matter of someone being toxic, its far worse. Please read up on what abuse looks like and what abusive behaviours are.
Secondly your feelings towards your wife are worryingly similar to that of an abuser. Calling someone pathetic, for example. You might see it as fair game in a relationship but many people would not keep friends capable of saying this to them. For many, that's not a normal everyday thing you just say to someone without calculated malice.
It is common for people who have been absued, to somehow end up with abusers, repeatedly. That might sound illogical, but again, do your own research and please consult a professional.
Every normalisation of abuse makes the world a shitter place for everyone.
This guy is very inflexible. He has one way of doing things, and can't see that other ways are just different, but equally valid. He sees his way, and he sees the wrong way. He doesn't like small talk, so small talk is therefore wrong and useless. He doesn't like to text, so he won't do it. He doesn't like to get to know someone through modern tools because he says that's not what “normal people” do.
What's especially odd is that he's 28… I can see some cranky 80 year old whining about texting, but this guy? He really thinks he can have sex with someone, then ignore them for a week and refuse to text them, and then have them happy to meet him for sex again? That's not how life works. “I don't have 10 seconds to text you to ask how your day is. I will however spare 10 seconds to text IF it leads to sex.”
A few things, for starters you don't have to put your dream job on hold for anyone. This was a new relationship and you absolutely did not need to do that. You made a very irresponsible decision.
Secondly, I can see how not having almost anything in common can actually push someone to be acesexual. A lot of people need good chemistry but sometimes that happens when you both have some things in common. It doesn't have to be everything, at least some things. You don't really need to become friends to date. Part of dating means getting to know person over time, but also it means it's ok to pull the plug when it's not working out.
This really isn't working out and it doesn't have to be anyone's fault. Have the big talk with him and end it. You guys can still stay decent/friends while finding other, more suitable partners.
YTA. Your friend is allowed to set boundaries. She’s your friend, not your babysitter, and her health comes first. Also, it’s so manipulative to say things like “everyone leaves” and “You’re acting like my other non parent friends.” If people tend to leave you in droves, the problem might be you.
Thank you for your kind words! Maybe I’ll try to find a good time to bring that up. Come to think of it, most stable relationships are built upon truth and communication so maybe my biggest problem is my own anxiety fueled what-ifs ?
I wish I could give you a hug, thank you for giving me some light.