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I don’t doubt that she needs some counseling. And I had an open policy with my husband who is now deceased but so our phones were always open. There wasn’t any privacy and I didn’t really care. Still when it comes to your family, she is your family you chose her you married her she’s your wife. They are your family of origin. How I might handle it is suggest some sort of counseling for the both of you so she can get heard because a lot of that frustration needs to get out she’s taking it out on other people. Secondly, it will allow you to voice what you need from her. As far as your family be around them when you can but really, what’s going on with you isn’t much better than what she’s doing.
You've been more than patient OP. IMO his rejection of your offer to get him set up with a therapist should be the last straw.
It sounds like what you need more than anything is for him to acknowledge that making you support him while he sits on ass all day is both unfair and unsustainable. However, he's essentially refusing to admit that there is a problem with the situation as it is now.
Be direct and firm with him. Things are going to change. Either he's going to get help and start making progress toward being a coequal participant in this relationship again or he's going to have to deal with his issues on his own.
Your father sounds toxic as hell. He has prejudices for no fucking reason other than they don’t align with a pure American standard and he should be ashamed to even associate himself as a proud American and someone who served in the military, and this is coming from someone who’s served for 12 years so far. He deserves everything he is getting, the good news is he is old as fuck so when he dies in the next 10 years maybe your family can heal.
Maybe try voice to text or recorded message through the texting app? Both may not be feasible though I guess depending on what she is doing.
I know exactly what you mean. Because I was the same with marriage, thought eventually he would want to get married when the situation was just right. But it really was just wishful thinking. I also convinced myself that I would be fine not getting married, but I know that's not true. I just wanted things to work out so badly because I thought he was my person because life kept bringing us back together. We were living together and building up to the same goals, there was just that one fundamental difference.
Now I'm in a relationship where neither of us have to compromise our long term goals. It's not like I'm engaged, but the fact that it's not completely off the table is reassuring.
I know it sucks insanely bad. It's never easy when you work in SO many other ways and the relationship feels so right otherwise. Like I said, I appreciate my ex making that decision, because I wouldn't have and probably would have ended up unhappy or resentful. I hope you find happiness, however this shakes out.
Sh did because she had the opportunity to do it. If he left for a cigarette she could have done the same thing. And obsessive someone would have to be to punish OP for leaving for a while?
Well your options really are one or the other
If you care about each other then try looking distance but realize it’ll have its own issues. Those can be overcomed but you should have a solid idea of what that looks like and what the timeline is for you to be in the same location again
Distance can be overcome if there is a set end point and communication is there
I mean…do you actually want to have sex?
Because it sounds more like you think you should want to have sex?
There's nothing wrong with two people with low sex drive being together. Its a LOT better than couples with a large mismatch between drives.
I dunno, I guess if you really want more a bunch more sex and he doesn't, then you're incompatible and yeah its a fair reason to break up.
If you just feel like you should want more sex, but dont, then I don't really see the problem.
I actually had a very similar experience with my mom. Alcohol, pills, rehab, and jail were all she did my entire life until about a year ago. But she never wanted to get clean. I guess I thought since he did want to, that we were strong enough to do this without rehab. But I am taking way too much responsibility…it’s hot not to when you’re watching the person you love completely disregard their own well being. Ugh.
She fucking cheated man. End it