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Room for on-line sex video chat teena_sweet
Model from: lk
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1975-02-16
Body Type: bodyTypeCurvy
Ethnicity: ethnicityAsian
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureRomantic
Date: October 23, 2022
I don't understand. You had plans to go out but he wasn't putting any effort into planning what to do? Were there more plans that needed to be made?
?? unlike you
Yeah, babe, I'm just going to go shower at your sister's place.
My old lady: tha fuck!?!?!
Here's what I read:
My bf will only marry me if it inconveniences him in no way
Is this really what you want? To settle for someone who doesn't care about something so important to you? Relationships are about compromise and supporting your partner. Tbh he isn't being very supportive about getting married.
It's fine if neither of you want to get married, that's a valid choice. But you do, and the fact that he can't go no I don't want this because I don't believe in it or I don't want it but you do and I love and support you is troubling.
Thanks for the feedback 🙂
Reminded me of the time my father walked in on me(30m at that time) balls deep in my girl(26f at that time)
Thank you for your comment. It made me look at this situation from a different angle.
I cannot agree with you on what actual choices I have, but I totally agree that I can't actually have both, and I have to decide what I want. And only then to decide how can I achieve my goals. And that's really obvious, but I also agree, that talking to my wife is just inevitable in any case.
Speaking about choices:
There is no choice of leaving everything as it is and build a 'friendship' with this new girl. You are totally right about putting 'friendship' into quotes. That will be just building a romantic relationship while pretending it to be a friendship. And that's what I was doing for some relatively short time, and found myself in an unbearable situation. I'm not that stupid to believe in such a lie to myself. I can try to have a romantic relationship with this girl, admit it to myself and to her, and just lie to my wife. Cheat. Not that I actually was considering such an option, but I know people do such things and I thought about it enough to understand that that's just not sustainable. The best outcome here would be to quickly discover that we are incompatible and stop, otherwise, that will lead to a lot of frustration on each side and no happiness for anybody. I can decide to leave my wife. And after that try to build something with this new girl. Here I have to separate these two things from each other. If I want to leave my wife, that should not be tied to me having a relationship with somebody else. There are a lot of arguments against this, but there is at least one, that makes this choice impossible for me: I'm not going to ruin my relationship with my daughter at this point. If she were older, then it would be different, but not now. So at this point, I have to stay with my wife, and I have to opt out of anything romantic with this girl. That's already decided and was decided before I spoke to this girl. But here come the actual choices. Speaking about my wife: I have to try to build a better relationship with her. And I tried to do this for some time now, for more than a year at least. Not that I had any notable success. Looks like I really have to seek professional help. And that's all. There are no actual choices regarding my wife. Speaking about this girl there are some possible choices: Cut all ties with her. That would be very hot. That will ruin my relationships with other people in that group, and I value them highly. We are in a foreign country and our connection with people we used to communicate with previously is broken. Leaving myself without any connection with other people will be very hot. Also, my daughter made friends with other kids in this group, and it will be hot to explain to her. Remain distant, no communication outside the group. That's totally possible. Try to keep a good non-romantic relationship. That's the best outcome, but I'm not sure that's possible at all. I have female friends, but none of them were ever associated with romance in my mind. So, it looks like I should not try to do this, at least now.
I personally would never open the door to letting him bang other girls. If you do that and end up married it’s going to be like he had a free pass to cheat on you.
You put yourself at risk to him getting another girl pregnant, catching STI and I argue it’s also going to make him more likely cheat in the future.
This guys probably so excited. You told him you’d suck him off, let him bang other girls and you’re a virgin all on the second date.
If he's the right guy for you that genuinely cares about you, he will understand you needing to be with your mum.
Are they like friend friends or just work friends? And either she has something to hide or she’s afraid your going to embarrass her in front of her work friends. Just ask her about it. Be honest “I feel a bit hurt that it feels like you are embarrassed to be seen with me with your work friends. It is making me feel a bit insecure and unstable about us. And I would like to deal with it before it becomes an actual problem”