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I feel like every post I’ve read on here today is fake lmao. Between this one and the girl whose boyfriend is obsessed with making bread(?) this sub is getting on my nerves ?
Yep. If OP and this woman didn't go through the courts and make everything legit, there's a chance this woman could literally walk in and taken the child if she's on the birth certificate as bio mom. And a lot of cops won't stop her, they'll say it's a civil issue.
OP is getting a lot of bad advice from kids who haven't dealt with the ugly side of the court system.
Unfortunately she will probably be hurt, and she might not want to be friends. How she feels is not something you can control. The best thing you can do is be clear and make it a clean break. That means give her some space afterwards and don't string her along, and it means if she starts crying and getting upset, don't change your mind. She will be okay. Good luck.
I got her connected with a counsellor. She's explicitly started getting the help she needs because I'M the one who told her the longer she lets that addiction go on, the harder it'll be to kick with stuff such as withdrawal getting harder as time goes on, and that's not me saying that, she told me that.
I bought her the tickets because she was in the hospital twice in two days, the first time for relapsing on a cutting habit, the second time because her boyfriend pressured her into going to a party she didn't want to fully knowing she has an issue with alcohol, where he then dropped her where she hit her head on the pavement, and he didn't do anything to show he was sorry. I bought the tickets under the impression she was going to invite whoever she wanted to have the best time with, she chose me, and then changed her mind on after a miscommunication we had. That's her right, and nobody's fault but my own.
She's explicitly told me that had it not been for me in certain moments that she likely would have attempted taking her life. I “made (her) year” when I gave her her Christmas gift, and she's told me multiple times that I'm one of the only people she trusts with just about everything she tells me.
I wasn't asking her to leave her current boyfriend, she was already intending on leaving him because of everything he's done wrong to her, and has been for months, and finally set out a deadline for next month because she realized he's not going to help her in her addiction. In regards to her ex, she's expressed issues of trust. According to her, he hasn't once expressed getting help for his problem in the three years they've known each other before, during, and after their relationship. Why would I trust him to have the ability to help her?
I say this as a traumatized autistic with adhd, its ok to leave.
A family friend I grew up with is in much the same position as you, actually, just reversed. She never left him. She is miserable, he isnt doing any better. She is scared of retirement, cause he cant stop spending money and havent been able to work for over a decade, and whenever she tries to sit down with him and talk he gets extremely defensive and agitated, cause everything is an attack and no one apprechiates how hard everything have been for him and how hot he is trying. He has never hit her to my knowledge, but she is also resigned enough that I dont know if she would bother mentioning it if he did. The last 20 or so years I have known them their home has slowly become more of a gothic horror where she is just a ghost.
While I commend that you want to make sure she is ok, she hit you. While it might have been from genuine trauma, she hit you. What if you accidentally trigger her again? Will it be ok then as well?
If its too nude on your conscience to leave her to her own devises, talk to a lawyer or reach out to therapist or organisations who work with her diagnosis. Where I on-line there are own support lines you can call for those who are loved ones or caretakers of autistics, for instance. Not because this is your responsibility, but if it gives you peace of mind.
If she has big enough support needs that she cant help being a danger to those around her, then she needs to go somewhere where she can get the care and support she needs from professionals who know what to do and how to help her become more independent. That is a job way beyond what the average person is capable of. So even giving her the benefit of the doubt that her support needs are this extensive and that she intends no harm, and still cause you so much, she needs professional help.
I also agree with others that you should seek out therapy for yourself if you arent already. Its very confusing loving someone who also love you, but struggle enough with themselves that they for all intent and purposes have created an abusive situation for you. You're isolated, you cant tell her to step up, she doesnt hold true to her word, you might have to watch your words or else you might trigger her and she could hit you again, you cant leave cause what will happen to her. She might not be doing it on purpose and intend it, but intent doesnt negate the impact it is having on you.
Time to get the MIL out and hire a house keeper. If thge MIL stays due to the wife having a fit and yiytr determined tuo stay maried, split thfe cost of the housekeeper on half as well.
He's 19, this is probably one of his first relationships, he was definitely immature and wrong but I wouldn't say cruel. Hopefully he learns from this that he needs to be up front about it.
I feel like every post I’ve read on here today is fake lmao. Between this one and the girl whose boyfriend is obsessed with making bread(?) this sub is getting on my nerves ?
You need to notify the counselor at your school. If you're to scared to do it. Go to their office and show them this post.
Yep. If OP and this woman didn't go through the courts and make everything legit, there's a chance this woman could literally walk in and taken the child if she's on the birth certificate as bio mom. And a lot of cops won't stop her, they'll say it's a civil issue.
OP is getting a lot of bad advice from kids who haven't dealt with the ugly side of the court system.
The woman is not your friend. You can't trust her.
Unfortunately she will probably be hurt, and she might not want to be friends. How she feels is not something you can control. The best thing you can do is be clear and make it a clean break. That means give her some space afterwards and don't string her along, and it means if she starts crying and getting upset, don't change your mind. She will be okay. Good luck.
Alright. I'll tell you what I did.
I got her connected with a counsellor. She's explicitly started getting the help she needs because I'M the one who told her the longer she lets that addiction go on, the harder it'll be to kick with stuff such as withdrawal getting harder as time goes on, and that's not me saying that, she told me that.
I bought her the tickets because she was in the hospital twice in two days, the first time for relapsing on a cutting habit, the second time because her boyfriend pressured her into going to a party she didn't want to fully knowing she has an issue with alcohol, where he then dropped her where she hit her head on the pavement, and he didn't do anything to show he was sorry. I bought the tickets under the impression she was going to invite whoever she wanted to have the best time with, she chose me, and then changed her mind on after a miscommunication we had. That's her right, and nobody's fault but my own.
She's explicitly told me that had it not been for me in certain moments that she likely would have attempted taking her life. I “made (her) year” when I gave her her Christmas gift, and she's told me multiple times that I'm one of the only people she trusts with just about everything she tells me.
I wasn't asking her to leave her current boyfriend, she was already intending on leaving him because of everything he's done wrong to her, and has been for months, and finally set out a deadline for next month because she realized he's not going to help her in her addiction. In regards to her ex, she's expressed issues of trust. According to her, he hasn't once expressed getting help for his problem in the three years they've known each other before, during, and after their relationship. Why would I trust him to have the ability to help her?
What about being busy woke you up to this realization?
I say this as a traumatized autistic with adhd, its ok to leave.
A family friend I grew up with is in much the same position as you, actually, just reversed. She never left him. She is miserable, he isnt doing any better. She is scared of retirement, cause he cant stop spending money and havent been able to work for over a decade, and whenever she tries to sit down with him and talk he gets extremely defensive and agitated, cause everything is an attack and no one apprechiates how hard everything have been for him and how hot he is trying. He has never hit her to my knowledge, but she is also resigned enough that I dont know if she would bother mentioning it if he did. The last 20 or so years I have known them their home has slowly become more of a gothic horror where she is just a ghost.
While I commend that you want to make sure she is ok, she hit you. While it might have been from genuine trauma, she hit you. What if you accidentally trigger her again? Will it be ok then as well?
If its too nude on your conscience to leave her to her own devises, talk to a lawyer or reach out to therapist or organisations who work with her diagnosis. Where I on-line there are own support lines you can call for those who are loved ones or caretakers of autistics, for instance. Not because this is your responsibility, but if it gives you peace of mind.
If she has big enough support needs that she cant help being a danger to those around her, then she needs to go somewhere where she can get the care and support she needs from professionals who know what to do and how to help her become more independent. That is a job way beyond what the average person is capable of. So even giving her the benefit of the doubt that her support needs are this extensive and that she intends no harm, and still cause you so much, she needs professional help.
I also agree with others that you should seek out therapy for yourself if you arent already. Its very confusing loving someone who also love you, but struggle enough with themselves that they for all intent and purposes have created an abusive situation for you. You're isolated, you cant tell her to step up, she doesnt hold true to her word, you might have to watch your words or else you might trigger her and she could hit you again, you cant leave cause what will happen to her. She might not be doing it on purpose and intend it, but intent doesnt negate the impact it is having on you.
Time to get the MIL out and hire a house keeper. If thge MIL stays due to the wife having a fit and yiytr determined tuo stay maried, split thfe cost of the housekeeper on half as well.
Wait there's a sub for that ? That's vile man…
Is that code word for blow jobs?
This is emotionally abusive of her.
He's 19, this is probably one of his first relationships, he was definitely immature and wrong but I wouldn't say cruel. Hopefully he learns from this that he needs to be up front about it.