Just talk to your dad, communicate. Say Dad I am trying. It is just difficult seeing you with someone my age. As a 50-year-old adult you should understand. Tell him you will try harder. Also let him know that him threatening cutting you out for a substitute daughter that he sleeps with is very disturbing. Also let him know that you are an adult who does not and never will see his wife as an adult figure in your life because she is your contemporary.
I mean I would love if my fiance bought me lingerie for a special occasion. That way I know he loves it. Maybe just do it along with some flowers and chocolates. I'm not every woman though, so it depends on your girlfriend. I'd never be offended by that though!
A dumb reason? Dude this is a fundamental incompatibility. You are not soulmates. This isn’t something you can negotiate or compromise on, and you both deserve a chance at living the lives you both want.
I’m by no means making excuses for him, but just trying to understand what he’s thinking. I think many of us when wanting to show others a picture of who we are dating we very consciously scroll through and select the best photo of our partner. I feel like maybe it’s stems from that, but in real life it’s just weird, and it definitely seems disrespectful.
Honestly, living there while you save for a house is good finance.
Keeping your social group and local school for your kids while you scrape together extra pennies.
It's really a no brainer. But let's get something straight, this isn't a free house. And you shouldn't think of it as one as you don't own it
Just talk to your dad, communicate. Say Dad I am trying. It is just difficult seeing you with someone my age. As a 50-year-old adult you should understand. Tell him you will try harder. Also let him know that him threatening cutting you out for a substitute daughter that he sleeps with is very disturbing. Also let him know that you are an adult who does not and never will see his wife as an adult figure in your life because she is your contemporary.
I mean I would love if my fiance bought me lingerie for a special occasion. That way I know he loves it. Maybe just do it along with some flowers and chocolates. I'm not every woman though, so it depends on your girlfriend. I'd never be offended by that though!
Thank you ?? moving forward it is my main focus I just want my baby to have a stable home life … and good examples in their life
A dumb reason? Dude this is a fundamental incompatibility. You are not soulmates. This isn’t something you can negotiate or compromise on, and you both deserve a chance at living the lives you both want.
I’m by no means making excuses for him, but just trying to understand what he’s thinking. I think many of us when wanting to show others a picture of who we are dating we very consciously scroll through and select the best photo of our partner. I feel like maybe it’s stems from that, but in real life it’s just weird, and it definitely seems disrespectful.
I can't believe yall are almost 30 dealing with this kind of drama.