Money is one of the biggest things that end marriages. It’s good to know now how he will handle situations. I don’t see the big deal on just paying for your brakes or fixing them myself, but your bf comes off as immature and petty.
It means sit down and have conversation with her about this. You’re asking a question we can’t answer because we don’t know anything about your gf so you’re going to have to talk to her and ask.
I appreciate that. But in all honesty (even though it is her dad), she resents her dad, long story short. And my dad was a sweetheart. We both can attest to this. And I had that mindset too that everyone moment with my parents could be the last. So I didn’t have any guilt at the time that he was gone. It was the fact that I went through all of the grieving and being there for my family. And having to talk to so. Many. People. And I just wanted to be with her. And she could have just rescheduled the fucking trip man. And that’s what eats me up. I was fine with it at the time, but in hindsight it did more damage than I had expected.
Thank you!!
Why does he have access to a phone to contact you – meaning why TF is he not in jail? I’m so sorry girl.
Money is one of the biggest things that end marriages. It’s good to know now how he will handle situations. I don’t see the big deal on just paying for your brakes or fixing them myself, but your bf comes off as immature and petty.
It means sit down and have conversation with her about this. You’re asking a question we can’t answer because we don’t know anything about your gf so you’re going to have to talk to her and ask.
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I appreciate that. But in all honesty (even though it is her dad), she resents her dad, long story short. And my dad was a sweetheart. We both can attest to this. And I had that mindset too that everyone moment with my parents could be the last. So I didn’t have any guilt at the time that he was gone. It was the fact that I went through all of the grieving and being there for my family. And having to talk to so. Many. People. And I just wanted to be with her. And she could have just rescheduled the fucking trip man. And that’s what eats me up. I was fine with it at the time, but in hindsight it did more damage than I had expected.
Absolutely. But he’s not going to walk away. She just needs to be there when it falls apart which it will.