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Yeah, this still comes across like you're nitpicking and not adding anything constructive to the conversation. You keep saying “he shouldn't be yelling at all” and we've already established that we agree on that.
I'm not sure why you're so against the suggestion of moving the confrontation to a private space instead of focusing on the yelling portion.
But OP ending the relationship didn’t come out of the blue, he’d rather have an open relationship than spend more time with OP. Now the second she actually leaves him all of a sudden he’s promising changes he hasn’t made whilst he knows she’s been unhappy, and he’s changing his entire life plan? Nah, that’s weird as shit.
You're blaming the secretary whether you like it or not. Transferring or firing her is directing blame to someone innocent in this scenario. You can continue to be difficult and say you're not blaming the assistant, but we all know
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Yeah, this still comes across like you're nitpicking and not adding anything constructive to the conversation. You keep saying “he shouldn't be yelling at all” and we've already established that we agree on that.
I'm not sure why you're so against the suggestion of moving the confrontation to a private space instead of focusing on the yelling portion.
I wouldn’t ‘do’ anything. Dad can have his POV and bf can have his POV. The end.
But OP ending the relationship didn’t come out of the blue, he’d rather have an open relationship than spend more time with OP. Now the second she actually leaves him all of a sudden he’s promising changes he hasn’t made whilst he knows she’s been unhappy, and he’s changing his entire life plan? Nah, that’s weird as shit.
You're blaming the secretary whether you like it or not. Transferring or firing her is directing blame to someone innocent in this scenario. You can continue to be difficult and say you're not blaming the assistant, but we all know
Personally, I wouldn't. I don't want to date somebody that thought it was okay to snoop through people's stuff.
I just don't want amything related to my bank account out in the general public.
She’s gone. She isn’t excited about fixing this. It’s time to move on.