Honey you have to leave him alone. You opened up the relationship because you were BORED, he told you he would leave if he found someone new, and he found someone who doesn’t treat him like a backup sex doll.
What are you expecting? Things can’t just go back to normal, it’s far past that point.
You like the chase, not the prize. You’d just get bored again and the cycle would repeat.
You don’t see an issue with it because your codependent. When you’re not at work or doing things you logically know you have to do, you’re obsessing over whatever relationship you’re in and you base all of your free time off that. Most people have hobbies and not unhealthy obsessions.
When you’re not occupied with something else you could be texting him, and you struggle to accept that he doesn’t do the same. You need your own independence before you need a relationship. Healing from codependency is genuinely only something you can do single, and if you’re not able to do that then you’re not really healing, much less anywhere near being ready for a relationship.
People move at different paces. Five months is not that long at all in terms of this situation. And honestly you should be grateful he feels comfortable holding out until he fully means it.
Absolutely it is. Men do not need sex to survive. Anything he “needs” can be done with his own hand.
You need to look up sexual coersion. You are going to learn a lot about how your boyfriend has been abusing you.
Honey you have to leave him alone. You opened up the relationship because you were BORED, he told you he would leave if he found someone new, and he found someone who doesn’t treat him like a backup sex doll.
What are you expecting? Things can’t just go back to normal, it’s far past that point.
You like the chase, not the prize. You’d just get bored again and the cycle would repeat.
You don’t see an issue with it because your codependent. When you’re not at work or doing things you logically know you have to do, you’re obsessing over whatever relationship you’re in and you base all of your free time off that. Most people have hobbies and not unhealthy obsessions.
When you’re not occupied with something else you could be texting him, and you struggle to accept that he doesn’t do the same. You need your own independence before you need a relationship. Healing from codependency is genuinely only something you can do single, and if you’re not able to do that then you’re not really healing, much less anywhere near being ready for a relationship.
People move at different paces. Five months is not that long at all in terms of this situation. And honestly you should be grateful he feels comfortable holding out until he fully means it.
He’s marrying his old fetish object and bringing in a new fetish object.
This isn’t him getting excited because you have cute feet this is… girl this isn’t good
Shoot but 5000$ worth of gold and put that baby away somewhere ( thinking deposit box)