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“lets enjoy guys”
Date: October 18, 2022
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This reaction to OPs comments says a lot more about you than OP tbh. People can objectively say missing a half day of work without bring the business down because they’re in a minor role without “demeaning” them.
OPs gf had plenty of opportunities to say she didn’t want to go, she needed to be at work, whatever she needed, without being a yo-yo of sobbing or neutrality.
Thank you for the advice! He has mentioned that he understands he’ll need to take on a majority of the bills and he’s fine doing that since it will only be one more year and then I’ll have my own income, I just hate feeling like a burden!
Thank you for the advice! He has mentioned that he understands he’ll need to take on a majority of the bills and he’s fine doing that since it will only be one more year and then I’ll have my own income, I just hate feeling like a burden!
What's wrong with that? Everyone plays games these days. Average age is like mid-thirties.
So there's a couple of possibilities here,
Both he and your old BF may have gotten nervous because your unwillingness to move in represents inflexibility on your part. I can't speak for them, but I would never enter into a binding legal contract with someone if I couldn't make sure I was going to enjoy living with them first. Your current BF might feel pressure to be a typical “man” and not being able to provide certain things (house, ring, etc) could make him feel extremely insecure. I would just go ask a person if they don't want to get engaged anymore or if they're having second thoughts. You're adults. If you can't have an honest conversation about this stuff (rather than having internet strangers guess at it) then that doesn't bode well… but it does seem very common, so what do I know.
What does being bisexual even mean to you in the context of an exclusive relationship? That you will sometimes fantasize about other women? How would that be different from occasionally fantasizing about other men? Does it mean you will want an open relationship or will cheat on him with other women? When we start an exclusive relationship we don't give up the right to have optinions that other people are hot/attractive, we just don't act on them and try and be present with our partner. It's part of your past and character so sure bring it up but make it relevant to your current relationship.
Only you know if this is in character for him.
For me? And I'm a person with mental health issues. I have never once done anything remotely like this, even when I wanted to.
It's wild that he did it. If this is his character, I'm shocked he could maintain a job for any time at all.
People who act like this all the time? They lash out constantly and are obviously unstable.
So honestly? Either way is an indicator of poor mental health.
Good answer. I wish you both the best!
I was in the same situation. Even if he broke up with his ex 4 years ago (and he caused breakup), he chose me to replace her. He was talking about getting married and having friends, but he told me “I don't love you”. He still loved his ex. I told him that I want to break up because he didn't love me and he told me “but I don't need love, you are a good wife material, so we still can make it work out”.
I am not saying that he should love you after 3 months, but he could saying something like “my feelings for you are growing”.
We deserve to be loved.
He is not your friend anymore, and he could also try his luck with someone else wife.
My partner and I are splitting up, but I was still able to be there for him when he had a really bad accident at work recently. He broke his ankle and three vertebrae (no spinal damage thankfully). He was hospitalised for several days and I spent a whole weekend helping him in hospital. I think it’s pretty poor form for your GF to not help you at this time.
Only 3? You did well…
When I have tried to bring up my feelings, he says I am just overthinking everything. But he hasn't been really reassuring.
I see this a lot in posts; you try to have a discussion, he dismisses your feelings and the conversation ends. You need to push a little further.
My suggestion is to talk to him about what you need from this relationship whether its phrased in terms of actions he can take or the way certain actions will make you feel. Then, ask for his feedback or impressions based on what you have said and listen to him.
You may be a person that needs a partner who is more connected to you (not 24/7, but more than what you're experiencing here), even after the honeymoon phase wears off. When you're friends, its not constant interaction or being around each other, so its easier to manage. Relationships require compatibility, compromise and balance. The only way you will figure out if he's right for you long term is if you attempt to communicate about it and not stop at the waters edge because it's a difficult conversation (or let him stop).