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Date: October 4, 2022
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She doesn’t want you to reach out, unfortunately. Im sorry it went south, but it’s time for you to reflect on how you’re feeling and work on moving on. Reaching out will just get you your feelings hurt at this point.
Exactly. It doesn't have to be physical to be cheating. Texting someone and flirting with them without permission while in a monogamous relationship, that's still cheating. It hurts to leave someone after such a long time together but it hurts more to stay and not be respected. They deserve better than that.
If you endanger others with your behavior, they can in good conscious leave for their own protection. Mental illness can explain why someone may partake in risk taking behavior. It doesn't excuse it.
Holy cow. This is one of the worst things on this site I’ve read in a long time. Even putting the baby out of the story for a second – he abandoned your pets, you nearly died and he could barely care enough to help you. You can’t depend on this man in an emergency. He’s not worth your time. Leave him.
I'd just ignore him but collect the money until he gets the message lmao
Thank you for your advice. I definitely do think about how can someone claim they want to be with you and spend their life with you (after only 3 months of dating) but then suddenly just drops all of that and states its an inconvenience for them to hop on the train to see you and that their feelings aren't strong enough. It definantly made me question, & wonder if I was more months in or a year in with this dude..it seems like he wouldn't have put in work towards the relationship overall especially when it comes to more important things.
Cause guys are naturally territorial of their woman. Maybe the more free spirited people are completely ok with this, which is why if she is like that he should break up cause he’s not one to want to have his girlfriend doing that. If he respects her wishes of wanting to continue that’s completely fine but it’s also completely fine for him to walk away and not get belittled for choosing to not want that in his relationship. It’s a comparability issue at best. Let’s not sit here and talk down on men. Pretty sexist
I disagree with the other person. I’m just a random Redditor not a marriage therapist or licensed psychiatrist. But
I think you should ask now.. in therapy later the sessions might be structured and you may not get a whole session to ask this and find the answers. If you ask now:
You will know what he SAYS the issues are now. You could even write them down. Later in therapy if he contradicts himself you could call him out on it and ask why he’s moving the goal posts for you
If it’s just the two of you, you can ask him and he can rant at length about the perceived issues. You can sit and just listen and let him get it all out. If you ask him in front of a therapist they may interrupt or disrupt his flow of thoughts. You want to know everything and if it’s just two of you there and no time crunch there is ample time for him to express what he wants to say
Some people clam up with therapist. He could not tell the whole story or ignore certain issues in therapy. If you know the issues you can bring them up in therapy in front of someone trained to deal with them. Complaining to you is a “safe space” and he can be brutally honest
These are only my thoughts if you want to sit him down and hear his grievances. I would not try to fix anything or address anything but just get the data from him on what exactly are his issues. Then if he fails to bring them up in therapy you can and they can be addressed. Just my thoughts!
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The “drinking thing” is the point though. She was so disgusted and horrified by what she did that she made an immediate, significant change in her behavior. Thinking about what I want in a life partner, I know everyone is flawed and will make mistakes, make decisions I don’t like, etc… but I have tremendous respect for your wife and I would be proud to have a partner like her.
Ah, I see why you had to date someone still in their teens, you are actually more immature than her. You are the bullet that got dodget, and I'm very happy for her and proud of her for knowing that she deserves better.
Closure? Screw that. Just get away. There's no reason to subject yourself to that kind of verbal abuse. I admire your interest in providing some context for him, but no. You don't have to engage in a conversation like that if you don't want to. Just get away.
Wait, so like Asian people are free to use the N-bomb cause they aren't white?
And an Indian guy can too? Even though his ancestors weren't enslaved in the US and called that?
Modern identity politics replaces all the nuances of ethnicity & cultural history with just skin-opaqueness categories.
Lmao
She is seeing a therapist. She has made progress, but she has a long way to go. She has only gotten to place where she can heal in the past couple years. She’s at least trying to face her trauma, and it seems like some people never do.
Tell him if he’s threatened by a girl carrying milk, that’s on him. ??♂️
No. In my experience, men change after they loose u. It was him, not u. Ur not worthless to those that love u.
This isn't just a red flag, this is a tornado siren warning and you need to get underground now.
This is extremely abusive and toxic behaviour. It does not improve, it gets worse. I left a 5 year relationship like this 10 years ago and I'm still mentally scared from it. Start looking for a way out.
How long does she know him?
Part of being a good friend in a healthy friendship is boundaries. It's ok not to let people trauma or drama dump on you and actually think about your feelings and well being and not just their own. It's ok to tell your friend “I don't feel comfortable with this” or even just straight up “no.” It's ok to tell friends “no.”