Very selfish of her to priotize her own gushy feelings for animals over their actual wellbeing. You moved the kittens despite your preference to keep them FOR their sake. She wants you to keep them for HER sake.
Animals don't only exist to make us feel nice inside. If her dog killed anyone else's animal she would be legally forced to put them down, so she is lucky you aren't pressing charges.
Not sure what the legal recourse is regarding your lease but I'd check the laws in your state if you can bow out.
Regarding what to say to her, honestly she doesn't seem reasonable so not sure if there is anything you could say even remotely negative that she would be willing to hear with patience and understanding. Don't expect a reasonable response from an unreasonable person.
Yes, but he has a dad. I never had the intention of replacing his dad. I’m filling the role that his dad should be filling if he wasn’t a horrible person but that doesn’t change I’m not his dad
That last part of your comment isn’t even worth it. If you’re at the stage where you have to monitor your partner like some kindergartener then it’s time to call it a day and move on.
It would honestly mean the world to me if we got to catch up one last time. I think I’m gonna reach out. Do you have any advice on how to deal with it if she says no/doesn’t want to?
“Jerry” is a term that has been used in skiing and snowboarding since the 80's, probably longer.
Very selfish of her to priotize her own gushy feelings for animals over their actual wellbeing. You moved the kittens despite your preference to keep them FOR their sake. She wants you to keep them for HER sake.
Animals don't only exist to make us feel nice inside. If her dog killed anyone else's animal she would be legally forced to put them down, so she is lucky you aren't pressing charges.
Not sure what the legal recourse is regarding your lease but I'd check the laws in your state if you can bow out.
Regarding what to say to her, honestly she doesn't seem reasonable so not sure if there is anything you could say even remotely negative that she would be willing to hear with patience and understanding. Don't expect a reasonable response from an unreasonable person.
Then don’t let it happen.
Yes, but he has a dad. I never had the intention of replacing his dad. I’m filling the role that his dad should be filling if he wasn’t a horrible person but that doesn’t change I’m not his dad
That last part of your comment isn’t even worth it. If you’re at the stage where you have to monitor your partner like some kindergartener then it’s time to call it a day and move on.
It would honestly mean the world to me if we got to catch up one last time. I think I’m gonna reach out. Do you have any advice on how to deal with it if she says no/doesn’t want to?
I posted my ig posts on my story on purpose for that reason but even then he didn't like it