What an asshole. If he doesn’t get the picture and stop that weird shit, start sending topless pics of Channing Tatum and Tyson Beckford to your gfs in front of them and act like you’re drooling over them with your words ? in front of him too.
6 months should still be honey moon head over heels lovey dovey imo. Its different for everyone obviously but when you're at 6 months and you still dont feel love, then you probably won't feel love.
You might be an outlier but the way you've described it makes me think you were expecting to have felt love by now and dont. Thats why i think its not going to happen. Some people take longer than others but usually if its a normal thing for you and its not happening then you can't change it without a lot of effort and work. Are you willing to try relationship therapy to find out why you arent feeling those expected feelings or not?
Exactly what I just commented to some woman on here claiming it was no big deal. The levels ppl will go to delude themselves when passing judgement is astonishing.
Lol yep, so many men are porn addicts who want a young girl to be their bangmaid, and thankfully we have more and more older women and “the good ones” who are opening those poor girls' eyes. Usually after they make a post on this sub asking why their much older boyfriend is an asshole to them.
I also think that, now that we are able to provide for ourselves and get by as women without needing to be married for safety or money, women are doing fine without relationships.The benefits of marriage/ltr has gone down for women and the men available just aren't worth it lmao
I know, but it happened early on when we didn’t even know if we were gonna be together. I would have prob ghosted someone who ghosted me, that’s why it’s hard cus I’m being hypocritical when I would have done the same.
It doesn't matter if she has a plan or if she's doing it subconsciously. The fact that you can't even discuss it with her shows she's not prepared to even consider she has a problem, IE she's not looking at changing this behaviour. In fact now she's escalating by downloading Tinder (or at least, pretending she has). What next – next time she's going to inform you she has a date?
When he does that shit you need to call him out on it then and there, ask him to explain what he means, ask him why he thinks it's any of his business? Ask him when it was you asked for his opinion? Call him out, every time.
He gives a derogatory opinion, ask everyone else there what their opinion is.
You were raped. You cannot forgive this. Can you talk to your parents? A guidance counselor? Any adult.
This was a crime. Do not talk to him. Do not go near him.
Tell him how you feel.
Then expect him to say if he does not respond to his friends then…..
After that IDK. I send naked ASF pics to my wife because she likes beautiful things.
You all just have to get comfortable with each other to get along.
What an asshole. If he doesn’t get the picture and stop that weird shit, start sending topless pics of Channing Tatum and Tyson Beckford to your gfs in front of them and act like you’re drooling over them with your words ? in front of him too.
6 months should still be honey moon head over heels lovey dovey imo. Its different for everyone obviously but when you're at 6 months and you still dont feel love, then you probably won't feel love.
You might be an outlier but the way you've described it makes me think you were expecting to have felt love by now and dont. Thats why i think its not going to happen. Some people take longer than others but usually if its a normal thing for you and its not happening then you can't change it without a lot of effort and work. Are you willing to try relationship therapy to find out why you arent feeling those expected feelings or not?
ur so weird for lying and posting this wtf
Exactly what I just commented to some woman on here claiming it was no big deal. The levels ppl will go to delude themselves when passing judgement is astonishing.
Lol yep, so many men are porn addicts who want a young girl to be their bangmaid, and thankfully we have more and more older women and “the good ones” who are opening those poor girls' eyes. Usually after they make a post on this sub asking why their much older boyfriend is an asshole to them.
I also think that, now that we are able to provide for ourselves and get by as women without needing to be married for safety or money, women are doing fine without relationships.The benefits of marriage/ltr has gone down for women and the men available just aren't worth it lmao
I can’t imagine telling someone they have a complex before I’ve ever met them. What a tool.
I know, but it happened early on when we didn’t even know if we were gonna be together. I would have prob ghosted someone who ghosted me, that’s why it’s hard cus I’m being hypocritical when I would have done the same.
It doesn't matter if she has a plan or if she's doing it subconsciously. The fact that you can't even discuss it with her shows she's not prepared to even consider she has a problem, IE she's not looking at changing this behaviour. In fact now she's escalating by downloading Tinder (or at least, pretending she has). What next – next time she's going to inform you she has a date?
When he does that shit you need to call him out on it then and there, ask him to explain what he means, ask him why he thinks it's any of his business? Ask him when it was you asked for his opinion? Call him out, every time.
He gives a derogatory opinion, ask everyone else there what their opinion is.
Have you considered that you're the side guy? I mean, total blackout from her life, sneaking all the time, no labels, etc.
If she wanted to date you she would. You're 23, go find someone that actually wants you.