Definitely a breakup-able offence. And it is definitely abusive.
But why has he changed?
Has something happened at work? Has something happened in his family? Has something changed between you both (prior to his change)? Have you changed your attitude to him? Or has he finally had enough of how you treat him and decided to match your energy? (Not saying that this is the case, just listing different possibilities for his change in character) Or the most likely scenario, he is finally showing you his true self.
So take a little time (say overnight) to mull over the possibilities, and then decide if you want to try talking to him about the change before deciding whether to leave or not. If you don’t want to talk, then just leave. Do it as quickly and safely as possible (a change in how he deals with anger has a potential for violence) If you decide that you want to talk before making a decision on leaving, also do that as safely as possible.
Chronically cheated on me, stalked random pretty girls on social media, addicted to porn, lied ALLLLL THE TIME. And more/worse. No, you can't come back from it. I tried and tried, for years. 5 years after the first cheating I found out about, I finally left permanently. Once you forgive them, they know theyve got you and they can do whatever they want because there's no consequences, you won't leave even when he fucks other people. Have some self respect, pull up your big girl knickers and break up with him. You can and will find better.
I suspect she brought them.
Definitely a breakup-able offence. And it is definitely abusive.
But why has he changed?
Has something happened at work? Has something happened in his family? Has something changed between you both (prior to his change)? Have you changed your attitude to him? Or has he finally had enough of how you treat him and decided to match your energy? (Not saying that this is the case, just listing different possibilities for his change in character) Or the most likely scenario, he is finally showing you his true self.
So take a little time (say overnight) to mull over the possibilities, and then decide if you want to try talking to him about the change before deciding whether to leave or not. If you don’t want to talk, then just leave. Do it as quickly and safely as possible (a change in how he deals with anger has a potential for violence) If you decide that you want to talk before making a decision on leaving, also do that as safely as possible.
Chronically cheated on me, stalked random pretty girls on social media, addicted to porn, lied ALLLLL THE TIME. And more/worse. No, you can't come back from it. I tried and tried, for years. 5 years after the first cheating I found out about, I finally left permanently. Once you forgive them, they know theyve got you and they can do whatever they want because there's no consequences, you won't leave even when he fucks other people. Have some self respect, pull up your big girl knickers and break up with him. You can and will find better.
r/ radioheadcirclejerk
Total creepy weirdo behavior