I wouldn’t mention that you have looked it up. Keep it light and say you hope he has a great time. Make a joke or something like “ hey but don’t you go falling for any octogenarian widowed millionaires! ?”
And maybe also say “hope to see looks of photos….to be honest I am a bit envious of you going! But have a really great time!” So you come across as yeah, you’re fine about him going and can’t wait to hear about it when he returns. The less you overthink it, the better. And if you put pressure on him this early, then he may well rethink his interest in you.
This has happened to me before. Hilarious, I could not stop laughing ?
You are right! Its so hot for me to see the red flags as red. I constantly turn them into orange or yellow
Dump her. Find a sane partner.
I didn't know her mother's phone number and she got mad at me for it
I wouldn’t mention that you have looked it up. Keep it light and say you hope he has a great time. Make a joke or something like “ hey but don’t you go falling for any octogenarian widowed millionaires! ?”
And maybe also say “hope to see looks of photos….to be honest I am a bit envious of you going! But have a really great time!” So you come across as yeah, you’re fine about him going and can’t wait to hear about it when he returns. The less you overthink it, the better. And if you put pressure on him this early, then he may well rethink his interest in you.