OK, look an hour or two right at the end of the day isn't the most unreasonable request. Going to bed, do you disturb her when you go to bed after her?
You broke up with her because she cut her hair and you don’t like the new look. Are you serious? Please don’t ever get married because you will need to write vows a mile long to cover all the potential minuscule things you might break up over. Sigh.
She had a problem with alcohol and poor judgment when she drank. She made a mistake, which she regretted and made changes in her life to avoid it ever happening again. She has stuck to that rule for 10 years so as to never become intoxicated again. I think this speaks volumes to her commitment to staying monogamous. People make mistakes. The point is- did they learn from it? I think you’re overreacting but this is a fresh wound for you, so that’s understandable. Take some time to process the emotions and get couples therapy before you throw everything away.
He inflicted trauma on you. It doesn’t matter if he’s an SA survivor – that might explain his behaviour but it doesn’t excuse it. Allow me to repeat again he inflicted sexual trauma on you.
He is 34. He should be able to articulate why you broke up, why you got back together and why he wants to be with you now and why he thinks the two of you have a future.
The fact that you didn’t like his answers is very telling. He isn’t thinking about a future and whether this relationship is a priority to him. He is content to just coast with you.
You are 28 and mature enough to want to know if the two of you are compatible. What kind of life would the two of you have? If he isn’t excited to talk about your future and doesn’t seem excited about you in general then it is worth considering that this relationship doesn’t have the future you are hoping for.
Nope leave her for the streets.
OK, look an hour or two right at the end of the day isn't the most unreasonable request. Going to bed, do you disturb her when you go to bed after her?
You broke up with her because she cut her hair and you don’t like the new look. Are you serious? Please don’t ever get married because you will need to write vows a mile long to cover all the potential minuscule things you might break up over. Sigh.
She had a problem with alcohol and poor judgment when she drank. She made a mistake, which she regretted and made changes in her life to avoid it ever happening again. She has stuck to that rule for 10 years so as to never become intoxicated again. I think this speaks volumes to her commitment to staying monogamous. People make mistakes. The point is- did they learn from it? I think you’re overreacting but this is a fresh wound for you, so that’s understandable. Take some time to process the emotions and get couples therapy before you throw everything away.
He inflicted trauma on you. It doesn’t matter if he’s an SA survivor – that might explain his behaviour but it doesn’t excuse it. Allow me to repeat again he inflicted sexual trauma on you.
He is 34. He should be able to articulate why you broke up, why you got back together and why he wants to be with you now and why he thinks the two of you have a future.
The fact that you didn’t like his answers is very telling. He isn’t thinking about a future and whether this relationship is a priority to him. He is content to just coast with you.
You are 28 and mature enough to want to know if the two of you are compatible. What kind of life would the two of you have? If he isn’t excited to talk about your future and doesn’t seem excited about you in general then it is worth considering that this relationship doesn’t have the future you are hoping for.
“Smoking weed with door shut” they're fucking right in front of your face. Please have some self respect and leave.
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