Block him back, and ghost him permanently. I see a lot of posts where people desperately want to save relationships like this because of how the person used to be. But honestly, there’s nothing left to save after he’s disrespected you a multitude of times and refused to communicate by childishly blocking you. This relationship has run its course. It’s time to move on. You deserve better.
Sounds like he's stressed out. He's taking the bigger load of the bills so you can go to school while he does a job he can do but doesn't enjoy, waiting until he can go to school. When you're done school and possibly can't get into your career right away would it be fair for him to lose it on you? Some people work fulltime and go to school just to get by on their own. He is waiting for you to accomplish your goal while holding back on his own goal. It's not his dream to work in a warehouse 12 hours a day so of course he's not going to put his full effort in. Also he could be suffering with mental health issues as well. Talk to him instead of blaming him.
Im going to forever appreciate your advice, thank you. I felt a bit disgusted with myself for wanting out but you're right I am my own person and I deserve my own life.
Why does Stepdad deserve anything? He had an affair with a married woman, then married her, and helped her move her kids away from their Dad. He's not a stand up man.
I'm 41 and I watch Stranger Things and shows/films about kids or teens all the time. It makes me happy to see kids and teens who have support from family or friends with what they're dealing with, because for various reasons I didn't have that.
I would call her Christina Reachy and tell her to look in the mirror sometime. And watch what you like. Ridiculous.
It sounds like he’s using you for your affection and gifts but doesn’t actually have genuine feelings for you. The fact that he disappeared for a week without telling you beforehand is a huge red flag. He has seen naïveté in you and exploited it. Get your PC back and end the relationship.
I'm so glad to hear this!! You did the biggest, hardest, most important step – getting out. That book helped me to do the same years ago and I fully believe it saved my life.
ok yea thanks
Just to clarify, was she cheating your ex with him?
I don't see any problems, small world I guess, but not to disregard him because all that twisted, indirect connection.
My friend you are being abused by him. You really should reevaluate your relationship and find yourself a partner who respects you.
Block him back, and ghost him permanently. I see a lot of posts where people desperately want to save relationships like this because of how the person used to be. But honestly, there’s nothing left to save after he’s disrespected you a multitude of times and refused to communicate by childishly blocking you. This relationship has run its course. It’s time to move on. You deserve better.
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Yes, this is a very stupid question. Anyone who doesn't believe it's cheating has some internalised homophobia they need to sort out.
Yeah you should honey
Omfg. You are so naive
Don't have kids with this guy.
What post do you think you're commenting on?
Your a great friend. You caused the damage and fixed it.
You did the right thing.
Don’t trust your other friends who are telling you that you shouldn’t have done this.
Sounds like he's stressed out. He's taking the bigger load of the bills so you can go to school while he does a job he can do but doesn't enjoy, waiting until he can go to school. When you're done school and possibly can't get into your career right away would it be fair for him to lose it on you? Some people work fulltime and go to school just to get by on their own. He is waiting for you to accomplish your goal while holding back on his own goal. It's not his dream to work in a warehouse 12 hours a day so of course he's not going to put his full effort in. Also he could be suffering with mental health issues as well. Talk to him instead of blaming him.
This I can absolutely agree with lol
Im going to forever appreciate your advice, thank you. I felt a bit disgusted with myself for wanting out but you're right I am my own person and I deserve my own life.
Why does Stepdad deserve anything? He had an affair with a married woman, then married her, and helped her move her kids away from their Dad. He's not a stand up man.
I'm 41 and I watch Stranger Things and shows/films about kids or teens all the time. It makes me happy to see kids and teens who have support from family or friends with what they're dealing with, because for various reasons I didn't have that.
I would call her Christina Reachy and tell her to look in the mirror sometime. And watch what you like. Ridiculous.
It sounds like he’s using you for your affection and gifts but doesn’t actually have genuine feelings for you. The fact that he disappeared for a week without telling you beforehand is a huge red flag. He has seen naïveté in you and exploited it. Get your PC back and end the relationship.
I'm so glad to hear this!! You did the biggest, hardest, most important step – getting out. That book helped me to do the same years ago and I fully believe it saved my life.
He was heartbroken when I ended things and pleaded with me to try and figure things out
Meaning: take the abuse to date him..he wont stand up, he will never stand up to them..
What does he expect to just you work it out and he just not do anything and run away from it