Did you ever consider this may be the point where you break things off??
Her reasons are valid as are yours, and you not wanting to rent your place out is super valid. People are wild!!! But all of this to say, that this is a HUGE difference in values. Like?? How is she wanting you to sell your house?? And on that note, if she's truly a city galz the suburbs are a death sentence.
Just saying dude. It's ok to have this be the point where you can't move forward. You'll always resent her if something happens to your house, she'll resent you for being bored all the time.
That's totally understandable the only thing we know from OP is the gf finds sister annoying but has never claimed to hate her. We can only know what's said by op and whether the sister has a victim complex or not letting them stay in a potentially abusive situation isn't an option. A gf refusing to help and instead giving an ultimatum is what we do know. If she gives a choice instead of looking for solutions she's the problem. A loving partner doesn't ignore your family you care enough about to let them love with you and instead just say my way or the highway after 5 years.
She hasn't had a partner before because she's not handling her issues, and people can tell. She's now hitting you with them and it is not your job to handle them.
One of my favourite song lyrics is “I don't want to be your other half, I believe that one plus one makes two “.
It's about the fact that you're supposed to be a complete person with their own healthy identity when you're in a relationship, you can't be a mess who's hoping to rely on your partner for your well-being. Your partner is a dependent mess and you should break up with her.
Tell her to grow the fuck up. When the baby needs tending, you are a parent 1st and foremost!
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Did you ever consider this may be the point where you break things off??
Her reasons are valid as are yours, and you not wanting to rent your place out is super valid. People are wild!!! But all of this to say, that this is a HUGE difference in values. Like?? How is she wanting you to sell your house?? And on that note, if she's truly a city galz the suburbs are a death sentence.
Just saying dude. It's ok to have this be the point where you can't move forward. You'll always resent her if something happens to your house, she'll resent you for being bored all the time.
That's totally understandable the only thing we know from OP is the gf finds sister annoying but has never claimed to hate her. We can only know what's said by op and whether the sister has a victim complex or not letting them stay in a potentially abusive situation isn't an option. A gf refusing to help and instead giving an ultimatum is what we do know. If she gives a choice instead of looking for solutions she's the problem. A loving partner doesn't ignore your family you care enough about to let them love with you and instead just say my way or the highway after 5 years.
Get a new boyfriend. This one is not worth your time.
P.S. going on a ski trip with people from school is not hanging out with the wrong people.
I'd be available
Maybe instead of cheating he could have actually helped her…?
19-26?
She hasn't had a partner before because she's not handling her issues, and people can tell. She's now hitting you with them and it is not your job to handle them.
One of my favourite song lyrics is “I don't want to be your other half, I believe that one plus one makes two “.
It's about the fact that you're supposed to be a complete person with their own healthy identity when you're in a relationship, you can't be a mess who's hoping to rely on your partner for your well-being. Your partner is a dependent mess and you should break up with her.
“Why do you feel the need to constantly belittle my life progress? Does it make you feel better about yourself somehow?”
Say that the next time she brings it up – see how she feels being called out in front of others.
This bitch is not your friend.