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What the actual fuck is with all these comments. As a woman with a ton of live gaming friends I’ve met a handful and NEVER fucked any of them. She’s allowed to have friends without having sex with them. Either you trust your girlfriend or you don’t but you aren’t allowed to dictate who she is friends with and who she isn’t.
can you just remind yourself that when you needed space in the past it wasn't bc you weren't into your partner? sometimes a small reframe can help. i'm neurodivergent and get overstimulated really easily. when i am overstimulated, it often manifests as irritability, and bc i also lack impulse control, there is a much higher chance i say something i really wish i hadn't. so alone time for me is really a win for everyone lol.
I definitely think that this all stems from your clinical depression and the trauma you experienced from the cheating.
Ya the whole problem is that OP is iNsEcUrE!!! If she could just be “honest” and accept that this is her fault she could swallow the whole lie with a smile!
/s
Could be up to no good and it also could be something totally innocent.
Oh FFS. Is he paying you comission or something? No one is this naive!
The most important thing you can do here is talk to your partner.
You've said this isn't something that's constantly on your mind, but it's clearly coming up enough that you have a concern. You don't know for sure if this is an issue, or a repressed issue, or if you're just worrying that it might be, or maybe people/things around you are making you feel like it should be.
Regardless of which category this turns out to be, you need to talk this through with your partner. You need to explain that you genuinely aren't sure what you want here. That you're uncertain about how you're feeling and whether you're risking setting yourself up for a life of repression, and her for a life of a quietly resentful partner.
Talk to her about her feelings about sex. Is she sex-repulsed ace, or just indifferent? Does she feel attraction to anyone at all, or in any circumstances? Some people don't have any interest in having sex, but get aroused from watching/reading about the act. Some people physically enjoy sex but don't have any drive to initiate it. Some people don't get much from the act of sex but do like some of the peripheral stuff that goes with it, so they don't mind having sex to get those things.
Tell her you're not sure what you want, so you're not trying to convince her to do anything, you just want to understand if there are sexual activities she'd be interested in sharing with you, to some degree or other.
This is also where, if she says a flat no to any sexual activity of any sort involving her either directly or indirectly (ie, watching, instructing), you can ask her feelings about an open relationship, or other ways you might seek sexual activity independent of her. It's important at this point to present it as “I don't know how I feel about this yet, what about you?”, because asking for an open relationship without ever having discussed the concept has a very high chance of irretrievably damaging a relationship.
You may also want to see a therapist to help you figure out what you're feeling. I highly recommend that a) you tell your partner you're going to do this (finding out later would be an uncomfortable shock), and b) you find a therapist who is ace-friendly. There are sadly a lot of therapists who see asexuality as only ever being the result of trauma or disorders, and as something no partner should ever have to “put up with”. There are also therapists out there who would see a relationship between two women who aren't having regular sex and who would immediately try to convince you that you're just friends and maybe you'd be happier with a man >_< So do your homework first.
Reddit can't tell you how you feel, and we shouldn't tell you how you're supposed to feel. You need to talk to the person you love, who you're sharing your life with, and work together to decide what will be best for you both.
Maybe instead of feeling “back stabbed” you can transfer that to “hey 3 people really cared o was stressed and did something to try and help”?
Just a thought?
He isn't liking all different types of women, though. He seems to be fetishizing a very specific race and that's pretty gross.
First, get some reliable birth control. And think about why you let someone in your 1st child’s life when they had only been a part of yours for a short time. I’m a firm believer you shouldn’t introduce your partner to your kids until you have been in a successful, happy relationship for at least a year. Off/on shit is not good for your kids especially with you getting pregnant in between. You are about to have 4 kids and you are 19. Are you addicted to being pregnant, because this just seems irrational.
Stay away from this toxic person.
You are right she may have birthed you but she is no mother.
While I feel no pains about your egg donors imminent death. I do send my condolences to you for not having a mother.
Good luck to you.
Hello OP,
So, this is hard. Your boyfriend is in a difficult place. As a trans person, he is one of the most marginalized ppl AND have higher risk of violence and death from ppl for bring trans. This is typically why they do not disclose their gender right away to ppl they date. Usually, it can end very dangerously for them if they disclose too early.
Your boyfriend is young and figuring out the timing of his disclosure. I think he may have waited a bit too long. He could've told you sooner if you were developing such a good emotional connection. But it's all a learning curve. Remember, he didn't do this to be malicious. He did this out of fear for his own life.
Now, it all depends on what you want to do about the relationship. Bottom surgery is very expensive and can be very dangerous. Not all trans ppl want to get it or can get it. You have to think about if that is a deal breaker for you or not in the relationship.
Now for you, you love him as a person and are attracted to him, but his genitalia is where the hang up happens. There are strap ons that stimulate his clit while pleasuring you. That could be an option.
I think you need to think about what you want in a relationship, what is important to you, what matters, if your current partner fits that, and then sit down with him and talk about it. I wish you luck OP.
Types are a childish perspective on attraction and relationships. They rely on fantasy and social pressure to project an image of what we think of ourselves. Types are, at best, a neutral flavor. It takes a real person to add character to the meal.
Thank you for sharing this, I am really considering it
This woman is selfish and heartless. This isn't a good or healthy relationship.
Focus on your mum, you only have one mother in life and right now she needs you. When she is gone your regret will never be that you spent too much time with her. It will only be if you don't spend enough time with her.