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User Friendly, but you can call me Friendly, and since this is a friendly zone, be nice to your neighbors!, 35 y.o.
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Date: October 23, 2022
Have you considered therapy? It sounds like there's a lot of residual pain and resentment here from your prior social isolation, which is likely to be an issue in any romantic relationship if you don't address it.
So much has happened in our relationship where I've let things slip and ignored red flags in the past and just playing it off as he doesn't know better.
Like what?
Abusers don't change. They promise they will but they don't. They escalate instead.
You already have a baby. He is an other people-pleaser at your expense, not a people-pleaser in general. Because that would also mean pleasing you.
This had nothing to do with you. Getting cold feet when meeting someone new is very common and it’s unfortunately difficult to express “I got scared and changed my mind”, so people will point to something else to blame.
Nothing you described makes me think a reasonable woman would have taken issue. This isn’t your issue.
You cannot reason with immature people who play this card:
She says that she feels like she’s not a “priority” to me and that this is a boundary I need to respect.
Let's not call this a boundary… its control and toxic. Your GF is always going to feel threatened by your friend.
And you even did what you should have done:
I offered to arrange for the three of us to go to lunch, but my girlfriend refused (FF is totally open to meeting and even asked to meet).
I wouldn't be surprised if your starts going through your phone, and regularly accuses you of cheating.
Anyways. We would call this a red flag and typically advise a break up…
All you can do, is suggest everyone goes for dinner.
Beyond that, it'll be your choice to stick around in a relationship where someone forces you to pick them or your friend.
It'll be a sad day if you dispose your loyal friend who you have known for half your life, for the sake of keeping a woman whose 10 years younger that you met less than a year ago.
peak his interest
He was looking for sex and he got what he wanted from you. It's not your fault: He lead you on. Men and woman do that all the time because they can. And it is especially easy to do in LDR type settings. I'm sorry you have been abused by this man. It better to know that now rather than later when you are even more invested.
He wanted the adventure of romance without the commitment. Again, I'm sorry.
I don’t know why it’s so difficult to let her go. We been together only for 4 months even less. But in the beginning she was the perfect girlfriend. For like a month or so(I mean she still did things behind my back that I didn’t knew about for example sexting her ex bf)
Yeah, he's controlling you. Stop accepting it. And stop helping him. ?