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Yes I think individual therapy and couples therapy is the key to identifying what is eating at you and how to understand yourself, understand your partner and be able to communicate effectively. Psychologytoday.com has profiles of therapists in your area so you can find one that sounds good to you.
Stop reacting with any hint of humor or nervous giggles. In this post you said both that it’s disgusting but also that it’s “silly” and “lol” and a laughing emoji. Stop pretending it’s in any way silly or cute. The tone you want is both disgust and derision. Make no reference to the fact that he thinks it’s funny. If you have to react at all, nothing but “That’s disgusting, how embarrassing for you.” “Sounds like you are having a medical issue. Do you need to call a doctor?”
If gray rocking the potty humor doesn’t help, move to Serious Adult Conversation. “I’ve asked you repeatedly to stop sending me gross photos of you in the bathroom and you keep doing it. It’s very disrespectful. Why do you keep doing something that you know I dislike?” If he still persists with the jokes, he’s a lost cause. Just dump him and let him find someone who’s equally childish.
OP, you can see for yourself he's immature & thoughtless. Perhaps not the right guy!
He and his friends were getting jollies at your frustration. Well, I don't think he's boyfriend material. Don't be so needy you put up with being disrespected.
I live this but I am the person saying it's too late. This is not a mystery or code. ITS TO LATE. This does not have to be a big thing. Have sex, then watch the movie after. She will fall asleep during the move.
BTW, add kids to the mix and life will also change.
>>He said it’s how he expresses himself when extremely stressed, and he wants to feel safe expressing himself with me.
OP, I couldn't read the whole thing, but I wanted to let you know that this is unmitigated bullshit, what he said about feeling “safe” yelling. He's gaslighting you, I think? He is the one who is unsafe when he's yelling. he wants you to feel unsafe so he can feel “safe” doing something that is unsafe. My mind exploded reading that.
Get him to store his furniture if you two don't plan to use it, and jointly pay for that as well. Also put aside a fund in case he has to move out for any reason.
So with that and utilities, $1500 sounds reasonable.
You don't want someone staying with you just because the rent is free. That's a terrible idea. Two is cheaper than one but you aren't a sugar mama.
Yes I think individual therapy and couples therapy is the key to identifying what is eating at you and how to understand yourself, understand your partner and be able to communicate effectively. Psychologytoday.com has profiles of therapists in your area so you can find one that sounds good to you.
Stop reacting with any hint of humor or nervous giggles. In this post you said both that it’s disgusting but also that it’s “silly” and “lol” and a laughing emoji. Stop pretending it’s in any way silly or cute. The tone you want is both disgust and derision. Make no reference to the fact that he thinks it’s funny. If you have to react at all, nothing but “That’s disgusting, how embarrassing for you.” “Sounds like you are having a medical issue. Do you need to call a doctor?”
If gray rocking the potty humor doesn’t help, move to Serious Adult Conversation. “I’ve asked you repeatedly to stop sending me gross photos of you in the bathroom and you keep doing it. It’s very disrespectful. Why do you keep doing something that you know I dislike?” If he still persists with the jokes, he’s a lost cause. Just dump him and let him find someone who’s equally childish.
OP, you can see for yourself he's immature & thoughtless. Perhaps not the right guy!
He and his friends were getting jollies at your frustration. Well, I don't think he's boyfriend material. Don't be so needy you put up with being disrespected.
I live this but I am the person saying it's too late. This is not a mystery or code. ITS TO LATE. This does not have to be a big thing. Have sex, then watch the movie after. She will fall asleep during the move.
BTW, add kids to the mix and life will also change.
>>He said it’s how he expresses himself when extremely stressed, and he wants to feel safe expressing himself with me.
OP, I couldn't read the whole thing, but I wanted to let you know that this is unmitigated bullshit, what he said about feeling “safe” yelling. He's gaslighting you, I think? He is the one who is unsafe when he's yelling. he wants you to feel unsafe so he can feel “safe” doing something that is unsafe. My mind exploded reading that.
Get him to store his furniture if you two don't plan to use it, and jointly pay for that as well. Also put aside a fund in case he has to move out for any reason.
So with that and utilities, $1500 sounds reasonable.
You don't want someone staying with you just because the rent is free. That's a terrible idea. Two is cheaper than one but you aren't a sugar mama.
Odds are you’ll never fully trust him again. And why should you. The question is if you want to stay in a relationship without having trust?