Stop talking to him and block him. It’s that simple. You’re now his ex, not his girlfriend. You don’t owe him professions of love, and it’s not healthy for him to expect you to do so.
He was an important part of your life for a decent amount of time. He is not now. You need to cut contact in order to move on.
Staying together “for the kids” harm the kids MUCH more severely than divorcing clean and not having them grow up to think toxicity and cheating is normal and acceptable.
Just know that if you tell her that, you may lose them as a friend. It's just something that might come with that. You're allowed your preferences, but I'm sure this will affect their attempt at dating in the future with being honest with them. Idk maybe it will maybe it wont.
I think that a little lie is better than saying “I'm comfortable with being romantic with trans people”
You know what you did wrong. Why do you think you deserve to ask for forgivness for some shit like this? It seems like just another part of the same story. Drunk isn't an excuse, you are a piece of shit boyfriend.
She's weird AF but… don't pay attention to her B.S.
PS : You should have told her that you did not wan to pursue anything as chemestry wasn't there.
So you want to stay with somebody who has zero intention of changing/improving/stopping doing rude/hurtful things to you … Because?
Stop drinking and try to stay busy. Bring on your own, drunk with your own thoughts are not good op.
Stop the drinking.
Same, did we not notice this after kid #1 or #2?
She's been living this man for years, the only thing different is he gave her a label…..
Stop talking to him and block him. It’s that simple. You’re now his ex, not his girlfriend. You don’t owe him professions of love, and it’s not healthy for him to expect you to do so.
He was an important part of your life for a decent amount of time. He is not now. You need to cut contact in order to move on.
The fact that he bought his friend's porn is the kicker for me. Like way to be her play thing. Way to be an actual mark.
Not even a lap dance? Man you run a tight ship.
I think you grilled him enough… Just follow through with learning how to properly train a dog and be observant of his follow through on the matter.
It takes effort and time to change. So make sure your allowing for things to change.
Staying together “for the kids” harm the kids MUCH more severely than divorcing clean and not having them grow up to think toxicity and cheating is normal and acceptable.
Just know that if you tell her that, you may lose them as a friend. It's just something that might come with that. You're allowed your preferences, but I'm sure this will affect their attempt at dating in the future with being honest with them. Idk maybe it will maybe it wont.
I think that a little lie is better than saying “I'm comfortable with being romantic with trans people”
You know what you did wrong. Why do you think you deserve to ask for forgivness for some shit like this? It seems like just another part of the same story. Drunk isn't an excuse, you are a piece of shit boyfriend.