You explicitly told him not to do something, and he went ahead and did it anyways. He couldn't control himself and basically acted on his animalistic behavior.
Cherry on top is that he finished without you. Double cherry on top is that he is cowardly trying to communicate with you, without acknowledging what happen.
Now, you're debating to tell him how you feel, and I assume you're going to expect an apology.
Do you want to be involved with someone that you have to explain why they need to apologize? This is something he should be doing on his own accord, without you needing to put it into motion.
This guy is incredibly selfish. He couldn't handle a simple boundary out the gate… I doubt it will improve, that behavior is going to manifest elsewhere. I don't advise further entertaining him.
Tell your father. People here are right, that there could be any number of reasons why this happened that don’t involve cheating.
If it is cheating though, your father has a right to know. And since you already found out, there’s no risk of you being hurt by any of the moral reasons this could happen (I.e. sperm donor).
Tell him and just don’t make any accusations. Just ask why does this say I’m half Asian?
I would understand his frustration if this were a regular occurrence, but if this is the first time then he's over reacting. Maybe he just doesn't know how to handle rejection since he's never been in that position. I think this is something you might easily talk out.
Yea this is going to end super badly for you. Her lawyers will destroy you for leaving the household instead of starting a divorce now.
Is this a deal-breaker for you?
This would have been one for me…
You explicitly told him not to do something, and he went ahead and did it anyways. He couldn't control himself and basically acted on his animalistic behavior.
Cherry on top is that he finished without you. Double cherry on top is that he is cowardly trying to communicate with you, without acknowledging what happen.
Now, you're debating to tell him how you feel, and I assume you're going to expect an apology.
Do you want to be involved with someone that you have to explain why they need to apologize? This is something he should be doing on his own accord, without you needing to put it into motion.
This guy is incredibly selfish. He couldn't handle a simple boundary out the gate… I doubt it will improve, that behavior is going to manifest elsewhere. I don't advise further entertaining him.
Play stupid games get stupid prizes. She is interviewing your replacement. Maybe grow a backbone
Tell your father. People here are right, that there could be any number of reasons why this happened that don’t involve cheating.
If it is cheating though, your father has a right to know. And since you already found out, there’s no risk of you being hurt by any of the moral reasons this could happen (I.e. sperm donor).
Tell him and just don’t make any accusations. Just ask why does this say I’m half Asian?
Speak honestly to him about your feelings and I'm sure he will pressure you of his love for you. I think you need reassurance.
Hey known his friends for waaaay longer than he knows you and how you start crying?
I would have made extra ? noises and laughed.
Women ☕(expect the cool ones)
Now that you know who she really is what are you going to do? She’s a total snob. If she doesn’t want to change, you know the answer.
I would understand his frustration if this were a regular occurrence, but if this is the first time then he's over reacting. Maybe he just doesn't know how to handle rejection since he's never been in that position. I think this is something you might easily talk out.