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I get the feeling you have misread his signals. In grief, he may seem distant, but that doesn't mean he doesn't want you nearby. Grief is a special case, it's not about setting a boundary, it's about being overwhelmed by a sense of loss.
Now, you seem hurt that he didn't turn to you. I urge you to continue to make overtures of caring and try to meet him where he is.
So did you go to the funeral? (By the way, invitations to a funeral are not customary, it's not like a wedding.)
Of course it feels weird. Unweird sex with new partners is very rare. He had some thoughts and feelings in the middle and wanted to stop, he stopped.
If he's still into you, and you into him, explore other things than penetrative sex for a while. If you need sex for the relationship to work, that's fine too, and if he is having issues he should see a therapist about it. I mean, 99% of men and women have issues and hangups when it comes to sex with a new partner.
Ok not nice – maybe the button thing was annoying though, maybe not great, but maybe not the worse
> she’s ‘probably not the only one that thinks
Man this has to be one of my pet peeves for manipulative people. I hate it when people say “I'm not the only one that thinks so” its so unnerving and unaccountable for the speaker too.
> ‘my ex probably found me annoying too and that’s perhaps the reason that she decided to break things off with me’.
JFC not over sensitive at all, sad thing is those of us that have been around the sun a few times know this is emotional abuse pure and a simple – again super nasty because it basically has every intention of sounding like a threat to break up with someone (or at very least tearing them down) without any accountability.
OP confusion and uncertainty are the usual response to emotional abuse.
That headache you're talking about… is it metaphorical?
Therapists are “the best” on paper. You habe to chose who works with you and what way works for you. Not every therapist has the same approach, not every therapist has the same energy with you. Nothing works after 4 sessions, that therapist can't be “the best” if she gives up on patients that quickly. You were a piece of work for her, she wasn't patient enough to really work with you. Heck my therapy lasted almost 3 years, some people go to weekly or biweekly sessions for 10, 20 years. You go until you see improvement and then some. But you can't be walking around with bipolar and not being medically overlooked somehow. You're on a path of self destruction.
I get the feeling you have misread his signals. In grief, he may seem distant, but that doesn't mean he doesn't want you nearby. Grief is a special case, it's not about setting a boundary, it's about being overwhelmed by a sense of loss.
Now, you seem hurt that he didn't turn to you. I urge you to continue to make overtures of caring and try to meet him where he is.
So did you go to the funeral? (By the way, invitations to a funeral are not customary, it's not like a wedding.)
Only one way to know for sure. That is to ask how you see each other.
Don't tell him…block the number and don't give it a second thought
Of course it feels weird. Unweird sex with new partners is very rare. He had some thoughts and feelings in the middle and wanted to stop, he stopped.
If he's still into you, and you into him, explore other things than penetrative sex for a while. If you need sex for the relationship to work, that's fine too, and if he is having issues he should see a therapist about it. I mean, 99% of men and women have issues and hangups when it comes to sex with a new partner.
Kiss and cuddle. Good luck!
This escalated so quickly
> She then said that ‘I’m really annoying’
Ok not nice – maybe the button thing was annoying though, maybe not great, but maybe not the worse
> she’s ‘probably not the only one that thinks
Man this has to be one of my pet peeves for manipulative people. I hate it when people say “I'm not the only one that thinks so” its so unnerving and unaccountable for the speaker too.
> ‘my ex probably found me annoying too and that’s perhaps the reason that she decided to break things off with me’.
JFC not over sensitive at all, sad thing is those of us that have been around the sun a few times know this is emotional abuse pure and a simple – again super nasty because it basically has every intention of sounding like a threat to break up with someone (or at very least tearing them down) without any accountability.
OP confusion and uncertainty are the usual response to emotional abuse.
That headache you're talking about… is it metaphorical?
Therapists are “the best” on paper. You habe to chose who works with you and what way works for you. Not every therapist has the same approach, not every therapist has the same energy with you. Nothing works after 4 sessions, that therapist can't be “the best” if she gives up on patients that quickly. You were a piece of work for her, she wasn't patient enough to really work with you. Heck my therapy lasted almost 3 years, some people go to weekly or biweekly sessions for 10, 20 years. You go until you see improvement and then some. But you can't be walking around with bipolar and not being medically overlooked somehow. You're on a path of self destruction.